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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 738575" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>This is an interesting conversation. How someone describes the people they are dealing with should be completely individual. I call my youngest son exasperating. Gift from God? My faith has been tested and is still being tested. My oldest son has cerebral palsy.He is a fabulous human being, works , doesn't complain, even when he is in pain, battling his body. Oldest son is a lot of physical work for us--completely physically dependent. He has a fabulous attitude about life. We also have a daughter, she is as easy as a sunny day in May.</p><p>Perhaps there is a clue in your feeling in that you aren't/haven't been married and your children have not tried to pit you against your mate. my exasperating child has, several times. When we were married in church the minister said, "who God has joined together let no one put asunder". Our youngest son has told me to divorce his dad, that he will only make me miserable the rest of my life. Hello? His dad has never made me miserable, Youngest son however..very! He cheats.lies, steals..not very holy. Through all of this we have not cast him out. He left of his own accord. We are helped him get an apartment.</p><p>How would he feels if he read this? Every word is true. If he doesn't like what he reads he needs to look in the mirror and change what he sees. We still love him. I will still help him. He will NOT destroy our marriage. </p><p>I have never told his dad that he said to divorce him. I do not want to cause any more hurt than he has already caused. I have tried to figure out if he has a mental illness. The truth is I really don't think he has anything more than ADD, possibly ODD..BUT he is very intelligent. He CAN overcome this if he chooses to do so. Mainly he he is a product of the "ME 1st generation" .</p><p>Am I a walk in the park to live with? NO.. I expect people to pay their bill, be respectful, and follow through on what they say they will do,tell the truth and not steal... wow hard list to fulfill.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 738575, member: 23103"] This is an interesting conversation. How someone describes the people they are dealing with should be completely individual. I call my youngest son exasperating. Gift from God? My faith has been tested and is still being tested. My oldest son has cerebral palsy.He is a fabulous human being, works , doesn't complain, even when he is in pain, battling his body. Oldest son is a lot of physical work for us--completely physically dependent. He has a fabulous attitude about life. We also have a daughter, she is as easy as a sunny day in May. Perhaps there is a clue in your feeling in that you aren't/haven't been married and your children have not tried to pit you against your mate. my exasperating child has, several times. When we were married in church the minister said, "who God has joined together let no one put asunder". Our youngest son has told me to divorce his dad, that he will only make me miserable the rest of my life. Hello? His dad has never made me miserable, Youngest son however..very! He cheats.lies, steals..not very holy. Through all of this we have not cast him out. He left of his own accord. We are helped him get an apartment. How would he feels if he read this? Every word is true. If he doesn't like what he reads he needs to look in the mirror and change what he sees. We still love him. I will still help him. He will NOT destroy our marriage. I have never told his dad that he said to divorce him. I do not want to cause any more hurt than he has already caused. I have tried to figure out if he has a mental illness. The truth is I really don't think he has anything more than ADD, possibly ODD..BUT he is very intelligent. He CAN overcome this if he chooses to do so. Mainly he he is a product of the "ME 1st generation" . Am I a walk in the park to live with? NO.. I expect people to pay their bill, be respectful, and follow through on what they say they will do,tell the truth and not steal... wow hard list to fulfill. [/QUOTE]
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