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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 397722" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>We just called the police last night to have our 19 year old difficult child daughter removed. She has an alochol/drug addiction and was in rehab for 60 days and outpatient for 5 weeks. Relapsed immediately after leaving outpatient. When she got out of reb=hab we gave her conditions for living here, staying sober/straight, working the program, saving money to get her own place and pay for the car we took away from her two years ago for having alcohol in it. She broke all rules. </p><p></p><p>We will not let her have the car because she is on our insurance and we are responsible financially. I called our state insurance board to find out if we could remove her from our policy and get her own and they said no, as long as she lives here we have to keep her on ours. She cannot get her own insurance until she has a permanent address of her own. She is considered a youthful driver in our household.</p><p></p><p>It was a gut wrenching thing that we did last night. Neither husband or I got any sleep and we are sick about it. She stayed in a hotel last night but has no more money and we have no idea where she is or how she is eating. by the way we adopted her at birth and have a biological daughter five years older who is nothing like her, graduated form college, has a good job and would never put a drug in her body ever.</p><p></p><p>I know what you are doing is difficult but you deserve to have a life without the disrespect of your son. He is now an adult and needs to learn what it's like to act that way. I asked our police if I needed to evict difficult child and they said not as long as she hasn't been paying rent. I know it's different in every state. Hopefully he will find a place of his own.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 397722, member: 59"] We just called the police last night to have our 19 year old difficult child daughter removed. She has an alochol/drug addiction and was in rehab for 60 days and outpatient for 5 weeks. Relapsed immediately after leaving outpatient. When she got out of reb=hab we gave her conditions for living here, staying sober/straight, working the program, saving money to get her own place and pay for the car we took away from her two years ago for having alcohol in it. She broke all rules. We will not let her have the car because she is on our insurance and we are responsible financially. I called our state insurance board to find out if we could remove her from our policy and get her own and they said no, as long as she lives here we have to keep her on ours. She cannot get her own insurance until she has a permanent address of her own. She is considered a youthful driver in our household. It was a gut wrenching thing that we did last night. Neither husband or I got any sleep and we are sick about it. She stayed in a hotel last night but has no more money and we have no idea where she is or how she is eating. by the way we adopted her at birth and have a biological daughter five years older who is nothing like her, graduated form college, has a good job and would never put a drug in her body ever. I know what you are doing is difficult but you deserve to have a life without the disrespect of your son. He is now an adult and needs to learn what it's like to act that way. I asked our police if I needed to evict difficult child and they said not as long as she hasn't been paying rent. I know it's different in every state. Hopefully he will find a place of his own. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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