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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 260932" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hey guys,</p><p> </p><p>so, sadly enough it's not my place it's boyfriend's place it's his kid and his ex. stuff like this has happened before whereas things get very explosive over there. granted boyfriend's daughter is a handful without a doubt, yet she is only exhibiting the behavior she has seen in my opinion her entire life. yet this particular night it wasn't her being physically aggressive or even verbally it was her mother.</p><p> </p><p>regardless could of been boyfriend situation or any situation, point is and whoever stated it she is a time bomb.</p><p> </p><p>so, now the latest is boyfriend goes and calls his ex and talks to her on the phone for a long time, surprise surprise. I told him today you are trying to "fix" her again, this isn't the first time this has happened whereas your ex has went totally off the charts with the kids and it wont' be the last. are you going to do something about it or take the easy way out and continue the same pattern of jump in calm situation ( temporary bandaid) and than wait till the next explosion?</p><p> </p><p>his daughter has been asking me since last night if she can move in. this isn't the first time it's happened where she has asked yet first time she's asked me and he's actually contemplating it, we'll see. I said to him if you were to do this I'd basically be raising your kids due to you always working, he's never home just monday wedesnday all day and tuesday night.</p><p> </p><p>he said if he did it he'd have to take all 3 kids! so i said well if it comes to that and you are chosing to actually do something this time i'm guessing this is a conversation yoru giong to have to have with me bigtime. </p><p> </p><p>we'll see how it pans out, i'm betting he does nothing another talk to his ex, another sweep under the carpet routine, until the next meltdown occurs.</p><p> </p><p>also if this was a one time thing i dont' think i'd be reacting this way, yet it's not the first time either.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 260932, member: 4514"] hey guys, so, sadly enough it's not my place it's boyfriend's place it's his kid and his ex. stuff like this has happened before whereas things get very explosive over there. granted boyfriend's daughter is a handful without a doubt, yet she is only exhibiting the behavior she has seen in my opinion her entire life. yet this particular night it wasn't her being physically aggressive or even verbally it was her mother. regardless could of been boyfriend situation or any situation, point is and whoever stated it she is a time bomb. so, now the latest is boyfriend goes and calls his ex and talks to her on the phone for a long time, surprise surprise. I told him today you are trying to "fix" her again, this isn't the first time this has happened whereas your ex has went totally off the charts with the kids and it wont' be the last. are you going to do something about it or take the easy way out and continue the same pattern of jump in calm situation ( temporary bandaid) and than wait till the next explosion? his daughter has been asking me since last night if she can move in. this isn't the first time it's happened where she has asked yet first time she's asked me and he's actually contemplating it, we'll see. I said to him if you were to do this I'd basically be raising your kids due to you always working, he's never home just monday wedesnday all day and tuesday night. he said if he did it he'd have to take all 3 kids! so i said well if it comes to that and you are chosing to actually do something this time i'm guessing this is a conversation yoru giong to have to have with me bigtime. we'll see how it pans out, i'm betting he does nothing another talk to his ex, another sweep under the carpet routine, until the next meltdown occurs. also if this was a one time thing i dont' think i'd be reacting this way, yet it's not the first time either. [/QUOTE]
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