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his ex is off the charts
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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 261252"><p>I agree with DL. Make sure this is what *you* want, Jena. One thing I've learned over the years with blended families is that you truly do lose that opportunity of being number 1. As the kids grow older the priorities shift and you could possibly get that spot eventually, just not with young kids involved. *You* have to put you first. No one else will. *You* have to put your kids and yourself first. Taking on these kids will make this very hard. I'm not sure it will be good for your kids. On the other hand, you deserve to be happy and unless you're happy and teach them by example they won't learn how take care of themselves either. I do know that you're a strong young lady and that you can do anything you set your mind to. Just make sure it's what *you* truly want. Don't put his kids before yourself or before your kids either. ML</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 261252"] I agree with DL. Make sure this is what *you* want, Jena. One thing I've learned over the years with blended families is that you truly do lose that opportunity of being number 1. As the kids grow older the priorities shift and you could possibly get that spot eventually, just not with young kids involved. *You* have to put you first. No one else will. *You* have to put your kids and yourself first. Taking on these kids will make this very hard. I'm not sure it will be good for your kids. On the other hand, you deserve to be happy and unless you're happy and teach them by example they won't learn how take care of themselves either. I do know that you're a strong young lady and that you can do anything you set your mind to. Just make sure it's what *you* truly want. Don't put his kids before yourself or before your kids either. ML [/QUOTE]
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