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Hitting, Biting, screaming are behaviors , deal instead with problems
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<blockquote data-quote="whatamess" data-source="post: 542114" data-attributes="member: 7664"><p>I'll jump in with what I feel can be a limitation. With a child on the spectrum, one of the central characteristics of the disorder is difficulty taking the perspective of others-which is really a key part of CPS. I liked to think of using CPS with my difficult child as an opportunity to hear his perspective (which is often sooo different from outsiders perception of an issue). Simply learn to understand how he thinks so that I can be more compassionate and when it is time to come up with a solution it often isn't a 50/50 agreement, I feel there needs to be more solutions that sort of 'favor' the person on the spectrum because it is such a huge struggle for them to even go through the CPS process. </p><p>Another problem I have encountered is sometimes my son is struggling so much that you cannot use CPS, you just have to revert back to keeping him and the house safe. My son had an awful year of many changed placements and he was just a different person trying to cope with it all. Now we are back on track and CPS just naturally finds its way back to us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="whatamess, post: 542114, member: 7664"] I'll jump in with what I feel can be a limitation. With a child on the spectrum, one of the central characteristics of the disorder is difficulty taking the perspective of others-which is really a key part of CPS. I liked to think of using CPS with my difficult child as an opportunity to hear his perspective (which is often sooo different from outsiders perception of an issue). Simply learn to understand how he thinks so that I can be more compassionate and when it is time to come up with a solution it often isn't a 50/50 agreement, I feel there needs to be more solutions that sort of 'favor' the person on the spectrum because it is such a huge struggle for them to even go through the CPS process. Another problem I have encountered is sometimes my son is struggling so much that you cannot use CPS, you just have to revert back to keeping him and the house safe. My son had an awful year of many changed placements and he was just a different person trying to cope with it all. Now we are back on track and CPS just naturally finds its way back to us. [/QUOTE]
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