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Hitting, Biting, screaming are behaviors , deal instead with problems
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 543032" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Instead of trying to fix behaviors - getting up for school - by going to sleep earlier etc - the underlying problem was something going on at school , aggression over the computer was solved not by teaching language but by addressing kid's concerns etc - it sometimes took quite a few sessions until we had a solution that was workable and often we had to go back and work on another solution </p><p></p><p>This all was accompanied by a lot of ' out of the moment ' talking about peoples' or general problems in the world or community etc taking perspectives, identifying concerns , talking about possible mutually satisfying solutions </p><p></p><p>CPS was equated with TLC - talking, listening and caring - an expression of a value </p><p></p><p>Often it was talking about these non-emotive issues that gave my kid a cps mindset </p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 543032, member: 10"] Instead of trying to fix behaviors - getting up for school - by going to sleep earlier etc - the underlying problem was something going on at school , aggression over the computer was solved not by teaching language but by addressing kid's concerns etc - it sometimes took quite a few sessions until we had a solution that was workable and often we had to go back and work on another solution This all was accompanied by a lot of ' out of the moment ' talking about peoples' or general problems in the world or community etc taking perspectives, identifying concerns , talking about possible mutually satisfying solutions CPS was equated with TLC - talking, listening and caring - an expression of a value Often it was talking about these non-emotive issues that gave my kid a cps mindset Allan [/QUOTE]
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