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<blockquote data-quote="muttmeister" data-source="post: 387201" data-attributes="member: 135"><p>Well, it seems to me that if you're not invited, you don't go and you don't send a gift and you don't give it a second thought. </p><p> </p><p> Around here, if you are invited to a shower, you should be invited to the wedding but the opposite is not true. Just because you are invited to the wedding doesn't mean you will be invited to all of the showers. Here we have showers for girlfriends, showers for co-workers, showers for geographical areas, showers for religious acquaintences, showers for family, etc., etc., etc. You wouldn't be invited to all of them, nor would you want to be. </p><p> </p><p> Granted, given the prickly situations in your family, it could be somebody exercising a chance to get in a dig at you, but not necessarily. I'd just forget the whole thing and if anybody mentions that you weren't there, I'd just state simply that I wasn't invited. </p><p> </p><p>No reason to get bent out of shape about what is either not a problem or else somebody else's stupidity.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="muttmeister, post: 387201, member: 135"] Well, it seems to me that if you're not invited, you don't go and you don't send a gift and you don't give it a second thought. Around here, if you are invited to a shower, you should be invited to the wedding but the opposite is not true. Just because you are invited to the wedding doesn't mean you will be invited to all of the showers. Here we have showers for girlfriends, showers for co-workers, showers for geographical areas, showers for religious acquaintences, showers for family, etc., etc., etc. You wouldn't be invited to all of them, nor would you want to be. Granted, given the prickly situations in your family, it could be somebody exercising a chance to get in a dig at you, but not necessarily. I'd just forget the whole thing and if anybody mentions that you weren't there, I'd just state simply that I wasn't invited. No reason to get bent out of shape about what is either not a problem or else somebody else's stupidity. [/QUOTE]
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