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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 335827" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>No kidding! I got a chuckle out of those suggestions, Susie! I'm just mulling it all over. I might not do anything- I had sent the friend request a month or so ago and then decided to forget about it anyway. I was surprised that after all this time, he did accept it.</p><p></p><p>As far as the wife, it appears they got married last fall- at least that's when they both listed the change of status on their FB pages. I did look at hers but didn't send a friend request or message or anything. My guess is he's either not told her anything at all about this situation or told her there was just some b***h who had claimed he fathered a child but he's sure it isn't his child. I never understood anyone buying that line from men. If the man is so sure it isn't his, he'd take a test to prove it and put an end to it. If it made a difference to them, they would take the test to find out for sure if they really had a doubt. Shoot, they don't even do blood tests here anymore, they do a quick swab in the mouth for dna and that's it.</p><p></p><p>As ffar as chasing him around or ggoing after him for CS, I have never done that- at least the way I define it. I was told about the time difficult child was born that I could pay and have someone go after him privately (I wasn't on public assitance so the state/DSS wouldn't do it), but I never once pursued that. I have not followed him around or harrassed him. I did contact him when difficult child was about 6 yo because difficult child was wanting so badly to just speak with him on the phone. That was to no avail- he first said he would think about it, to call him back in a few days, I did and he said he didn't want to talk to difficult child.</p><p></p><p>The only thing I've done ssince is a periodic web search for his name, just so I always have a rough idea where he is. Then, I did this FB thing after DSS got involved, which was initiated by the state because of difficult child's incarceration. Darn right if I am paying CS, they can go after his father, too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 335827, member: 3699"] No kidding! I got a chuckle out of those suggestions, Susie! I'm just mulling it all over. I might not do anything- I had sent the friend request a month or so ago and then decided to forget about it anyway. I was surprised that after all this time, he did accept it. As far as the wife, it appears they got married last fall- at least that's when they both listed the change of status on their FB pages. I did look at hers but didn't send a friend request or message or anything. My guess is he's either not told her anything at all about this situation or told her there was just some b***h who had claimed he fathered a child but he's sure it isn't his child. I never understood anyone buying that line from men. If the man is so sure it isn't his, he'd take a test to prove it and put an end to it. If it made a difference to them, they would take the test to find out for sure if they really had a doubt. Shoot, they don't even do blood tests here anymore, they do a quick swab in the mouth for dna and that's it. As ffar as chasing him around or ggoing after him for CS, I have never done that- at least the way I define it. I was told about the time difficult child was born that I could pay and have someone go after him privately (I wasn't on public assitance so the state/DSS wouldn't do it), but I never once pursued that. I have not followed him around or harrassed him. I did contact him when difficult child was about 6 yo because difficult child was wanting so badly to just speak with him on the phone. That was to no avail- he first said he would think about it, to call him back in a few days, I did and he said he didn't want to talk to difficult child. The only thing I've done ssince is a periodic web search for his name, just so I always have a rough idea where he is. Then, I did this FB thing after DSS got involved, which was initiated by the state because of difficult child's incarceration. Darn right if I am paying CS, they can go after his father, too. [/QUOTE]
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