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Holidays with BioDad and allegations of abuse???
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 329570" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Hang in there. He was at his dad's place when he not only said these things, but freely recanted. So he didn't recant because of pressure from you.</p><p></p><p>For now, be cautiously optimistic. Kids do this sort of thing, they sometimes give false reports especially if they don't fully realise the repercussions. </p><p></p><p>Where did he get the idea to do this? AS kids usually don't invent this sort of thing, so I'd be thinking hard about where the ideas came from. Who does he mix with? What sort of school does he go to, are there problem kids there who are manipulative?</p><p></p><p>I'd be tracking that angle down quietly. Think hard first, maybe (if you can) talk to a teacher about what they think, in terms of who has been feeding your difficult child with some silly strategies.</p><p></p><p>Then when you can, talk to difficult child about putting into place a more appropriate way for him to express his anger and desire for you to pick him up.</p><p></p><p>Hugs - if you are good people and good parents, this will be quickly demonstrated. It also will actually give you some insulation against future accusations.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 329570, member: 1991"] Hang in there. He was at his dad's place when he not only said these things, but freely recanted. So he didn't recant because of pressure from you. For now, be cautiously optimistic. Kids do this sort of thing, they sometimes give false reports especially if they don't fully realise the repercussions. Where did he get the idea to do this? AS kids usually don't invent this sort of thing, so I'd be thinking hard about where the ideas came from. Who does he mix with? What sort of school does he go to, are there problem kids there who are manipulative? I'd be tracking that angle down quietly. Think hard first, maybe (if you can) talk to a teacher about what they think, in terms of who has been feeding your difficult child with some silly strategies. Then when you can, talk to difficult child about putting into place a more appropriate way for him to express his anger and desire for you to pick him up. Hugs - if you are good people and good parents, this will be quickly demonstrated. It also will actually give you some insulation against future accusations. Marg [/QUOTE]
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