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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 608153" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Dance,</p><p>My immature 35yo difficult child-son is in a similar relationship. They live in a different state, are older, and I'm just burned out from the drama so it is easier for me to detach.</p><p></p><p>I met her one time when they were going to a concert out of state. She is almost 40yo and had so many stickers on her car it looked like a toddler's toy lol. When she told me she had two older siblings that she had not been in contact with for years I thought, 'OK'..........................</p><p></p><p>They came in with blue spiked hair and all of the accessories for a punk concert. We live in a small town so you can imagine the looks we got when we went out to eat lol. I had to 'loan' them money to get home.</p><p></p><p>She would call me up to 15 times when they would have a fight. He was going to commit suicide, all hysterical BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. I did call the police and they talked to him and he denied everything. I told her to stop calling me and I just deleted her messages without listening to them. When she didn't have me to fight with she started harassing my daughter (she had never met her). </p><p></p><p>THEN she found my land line and started calling one morning at 6AM. I had enough and I called the police, that did stop the harassment.</p><p></p><p>They fight a lot and girlie and her mother put all of his belongings out in the rain and most was stolen. They get back together and then she comes after him with a knife and he has her arrested. She was in detox and I helped him relocate.</p><p></p><p>WELL, they are back together and still fighting!!! My sister is going through similar things with her daughter in law. I'm hoping my sister will learn to detach before she has a nervous breakdown.</p><p></p><p>I shake my head trying to figure out why these people love the drama. I have a late 70's aunt that is the same way. It drives me nuts so to keep my mello as much as I can, I stay away.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing you can do to prevent it, it's his life. I think you are very wise to keep your distance from her.</p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 608153, member: 13558"] Dance, My immature 35yo difficult child-son is in a similar relationship. They live in a different state, are older, and I'm just burned out from the drama so it is easier for me to detach. I met her one time when they were going to a concert out of state. She is almost 40yo and had so many stickers on her car it looked like a toddler's toy lol. When she told me she had two older siblings that she had not been in contact with for years I thought, 'OK'.......................... They came in with blue spiked hair and all of the accessories for a punk concert. We live in a small town so you can imagine the looks we got when we went out to eat lol. I had to 'loan' them money to get home. She would call me up to 15 times when they would have a fight. He was going to commit suicide, all hysterical BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. I did call the police and they talked to him and he denied everything. I told her to stop calling me and I just deleted her messages without listening to them. When she didn't have me to fight with she started harassing my daughter (she had never met her). THEN she found my land line and started calling one morning at 6AM. I had enough and I called the police, that did stop the harassment. They fight a lot and girlie and her mother put all of his belongings out in the rain and most was stolen. They get back together and then she comes after him with a knife and he has her arrested. She was in detox and I helped him relocate. WELL, they are back together and still fighting!!! My sister is going through similar things with her daughter in law. I'm hoping my sister will learn to detach before she has a nervous breakdown. I shake my head trying to figure out why these people love the drama. I have a late 70's aunt that is the same way. It drives me nuts so to keep my mello as much as I can, I stay away. There is nothing you can do to prevent it, it's his life. I think you are very wise to keep your distance from her. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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