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<blockquote data-quote="Dancerat" data-source="post: 608188" data-attributes="member: 14984"><p>Somehow it makes me feel better to know that other people have been through this. Misery really does love company, I guess. Drama can be exciting to some people, (not me!). My son called me to tell me he loved me and he and gfh (you can figure out the acronym if it doesn't already exist) are now living in motel rooms. Jeesh. Part of me wants to pick up the phone and call her mother / father and ask if we can do something together to help this girl. I don't think she is evil, I think she has mental health issues, and she's just impossible for normal people (except my Don Quixote son) to live with. I just keep breathing, he's 20, he's 20. Detach. When he called me on the phone I told him I would not give him any advice unless he asked me minus what was about to come out of my mouth next. I told him 1) Do not stay in a motel room you don't have money for, you will be charged with theft of services if you can't pay and 2) If gfh gets you into a fight with another guy, do NOT use a weapon of any sort to fight back with or else he would get mandatory minimum sentencing and 3) If she starts to hit you again, you should walk away. He got irritated and said, Mom, I'm not stupid. </p><p></p><p>Well, okay then. </p><p></p><p>Then I said bye and hung up. </p><p></p><p>Thank you very much for sharing your story. Detaching is hard when you feel like they are headed down the wrong path, but I guess that's exactly when one has to do that. I'm still horribly sick with a cold, but I made it to work today. I've just been curled up in my cubicle, feeling germy. Have a good night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dancerat, post: 608188, member: 14984"] Somehow it makes me feel better to know that other people have been through this. Misery really does love company, I guess. Drama can be exciting to some people, (not me!). My son called me to tell me he loved me and he and gfh (you can figure out the acronym if it doesn't already exist) are now living in motel rooms. Jeesh. Part of me wants to pick up the phone and call her mother / father and ask if we can do something together to help this girl. I don't think she is evil, I think she has mental health issues, and she's just impossible for normal people (except my Don Quixote son) to live with. I just keep breathing, he's 20, he's 20. Detach. When he called me on the phone I told him I would not give him any advice unless he asked me minus what was about to come out of my mouth next. I told him 1) Do not stay in a motel room you don't have money for, you will be charged with theft of services if you can't pay and 2) If gfh gets you into a fight with another guy, do NOT use a weapon of any sort to fight back with or else he would get mandatory minimum sentencing and 3) If she starts to hit you again, you should walk away. He got irritated and said, Mom, I'm not stupid. Well, okay then. Then I said bye and hung up. Thank you very much for sharing your story. Detaching is hard when you feel like they are headed down the wrong path, but I guess that's exactly when one has to do that. I'm still horribly sick with a cold, but I made it to work today. I've just been curled up in my cubicle, feeling germy. Have a good night. [/QUOTE]
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