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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 608257" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Dancerat, you've done well so far. I know it's hard for you. It was hard for me at first too. My daughter got so many second chances until I finally got sick and tired of it. Please don't contact girlfriend's parents. Nothing good will come of that. They have probably done all they can and she won't allow herself to be helped, just like your son. This is common with our difficult children. They are offered all the help; our last penny; every inch of our heart...and it's not enough. Furthermore, they may be hostile to you and that may forge a bond between all of them against you. Leave it be. There is nothing you or they can do about this adult girlfriend. Yes, legally she is also an adult and she doesn't have to listen to anyone, just like your son. And usually difficult child's don't listen. They hear the words, but they forget it as soon as they aren't hearing it anymore. </p><p></p><p>Keep us updated. We are here for you. Most of us have been through it. It's NOT fun and that's why we are all here to support one another.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 608257, member: 1550"] Dancerat, you've done well so far. I know it's hard for you. It was hard for me at first too. My daughter got so many second chances until I finally got sick and tired of it. Please don't contact girlfriend's parents. Nothing good will come of that. They have probably done all they can and she won't allow herself to be helped, just like your son. This is common with our difficult children. They are offered all the help; our last penny; every inch of our heart...and it's not enough. Furthermore, they may be hostile to you and that may forge a bond between all of them against you. Leave it be. There is nothing you or they can do about this adult girlfriend. Yes, legally she is also an adult and she doesn't have to listen to anyone, just like your son. And usually difficult child's don't listen. They hear the words, but they forget it as soon as they aren't hearing it anymore. Keep us updated. We are here for you. Most of us have been through it. It's NOT fun and that's why we are all here to support one another. [/QUOTE]
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