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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 253078" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Natural and logical consequences are exactly what you should be working with right now.</p><p></p><p>Try NOT to feel bad that he has to repeat a grade. YOU did everything you could to help him succeed. HE is the one who was responsible to do the work and learn the material. HE chose to drug and do other things.</p><p></p><p>It is so dang HARD to get past that guilt though, isn't it? You might get some benefit out of reading the love and logic books. If you go to www. loveandlogic .com you can learn more about it. The men who wrote the books are great, in my opinion. One of the doctors who works with Love and Logic was RAISED with it as his father worked on writing the books and figuring the techniques out. I have been to a seminar given by the father and it was wonderful. Very inspiring but also full of USEFUL info.</p><p></p><p>And, funnily enough, after Dr. Charlie (the father) was describing a method used with teens to help them turn their behavior around, a teacher from a school near us blurted out "So THAT is what she was doing!". He really IS a teacher, in his early 20's, and his mom was a teacher who learned about L&L. She used the methods on HER rebellious son and they helped.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I encourage you to look at their books and find one that will help YOUR situation best.</p><p></p><p>You are doing a great job. Remember, it is Progress, NOT Perfection!</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 253078, member: 1233"] Natural and logical consequences are exactly what you should be working with right now. Try NOT to feel bad that he has to repeat a grade. YOU did everything you could to help him succeed. HE is the one who was responsible to do the work and learn the material. HE chose to drug and do other things. It is so dang HARD to get past that guilt though, isn't it? You might get some benefit out of reading the love and logic books. If you go to www. loveandlogic .com you can learn more about it. The men who wrote the books are great, in my opinion. One of the doctors who works with Love and Logic was RAISED with it as his father worked on writing the books and figuring the techniques out. I have been to a seminar given by the father and it was wonderful. Very inspiring but also full of USEFUL info. And, funnily enough, after Dr. Charlie (the father) was describing a method used with teens to help them turn their behavior around, a teacher from a school near us blurted out "So THAT is what she was doing!". He really IS a teacher, in his early 20's, and his mom was a teacher who learned about L&L. She used the methods on HER rebellious son and they helped. Anyway, I encourage you to look at their books and find one that will help YOUR situation best. You are doing a great job. Remember, it is Progress, NOT Perfection! Susie [/QUOTE]
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