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<blockquote data-quote="Kalahou" data-source="post: 694814" data-attributes="member: 19617"><p>Hello jodieh,</p><p>I'm just getting to catch up on this thread to let you know I am following along. I see your great strength and also weariness. We all understand here, dear. You are not alone. You have received some heart felt wisdom in the others' responses here. It is time to let go, but yes, it is so hard, so draining, so wearying to deal with the never-ending drama. I feel so physically tired of it also. It is not good for our health.</p><p> </p><p>I can tell you have the true insight into your situation and understand about not enabling, but I understand how sad it seems to know that your daughter has no other support systems.</p><p>Hopefully, your latest news of a job for her and place she can stay will at least give you a break to be able to stand back for a while and .... slow ... way ... down... and just BREATHE and find a moment of calmness for yourself.</p><p></p><p>Another member on this site ( [USER=17461]@Scent of Cedar *[/USER] ) once posted a phrase I took as a prayer manta. She said <em>"There is nothing you need to do."</em> Maybe you can take that to heart for a few moments now and then when the anxious confusion starts to build up and chaos is threatening. <em>"There is nothing you need to do..." Just Breathe ...</em></p><p><em> </em></p><p>I am glad you found our little corner here to find some comfort and safety. Stay with us. Read the others' threads to find more guidance and truth, encouragement and support ~ learned the hard ways from experience.</p><p><strong>You are going to be alright</strong>. ~ Kalahou</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kalahou, post: 694814, member: 19617"] Hello jodieh, I'm just getting to catch up on this thread to let you know I am following along. I see your great strength and also weariness. We all understand here, dear. You are not alone. You have received some heart felt wisdom in the others' responses here. It is time to let go, but yes, it is so hard, so draining, so wearying to deal with the never-ending drama. I feel so physically tired of it also. It is not good for our health. I can tell you have the true insight into your situation and understand about not enabling, but I understand how sad it seems to know that your daughter has no other support systems. Hopefully, your latest news of a job for her and place she can stay will at least give you a break to be able to stand back for a while and .... slow ... way ... down... and just BREATHE and find a moment of calmness for yourself. Another member on this site ( [USER=17461]@Scent of Cedar *[/USER] ) once posted a phrase I took as a prayer manta. She said [I]"There is nothing you need to do."[/I] Maybe you can take that to heart for a few moments now and then when the anxious confusion starts to build up and chaos is threatening. [I]"There is nothing you need to do..." Just Breathe ... [/I] I am glad you found our little corner here to find some comfort and safety. Stay with us. Read the others' threads to find more guidance and truth, encouragement and support ~ learned the hard ways from experience. [B]You are going to be alright[/B]. ~ Kalahou [/QUOTE]
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