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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 699383" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This may be hard, but I try reality. Your son started a meth fire with his son in the house. Maybe others won't feel so much sympathy for this horrible act. Some things you can't take back or society doesn't forget, even though your loving mothER heart forgives.</p><p></p><p>If it were me, I know I would have been horrified at my son and feel sad about his choices but never forget those he hurt. I would move on. You can't change the past. Neither can he. And he's back in jail. Is he sorry he hurt people? Traumatized his son? I am not tying to be mean. Just stating what he has done. And it still didn't entice him to quit using drugs, not even after that.</p><p></p><p>His crummy life is on him, nobody else. And he doesn't seem motivated to change. And he is almost 50. When will he see the light? Of course his life is damaged. HE DID IT AND STILL IS.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes those we love dearly do wrong and suffer for it. Sometimes we just have to accept what is. I think therapy for you would help you lots and lots and I believe you deserve to be happy. You did nothing wrong and your son is on his own with this. Nobody can help him. It doesn't undo his history if you suffer at home and refuse to be happy. Please live your life!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> it helps him not a bit for you to suffer too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 699383, member: 1550"] This may be hard, but I try reality. Your son started a meth fire with his son in the house. Maybe others won't feel so much sympathy for this horrible act. Some things you can't take back or society doesn't forget, even though your loving mothER heart forgives. If it were me, I know I would have been horrified at my son and feel sad about his choices but never forget those he hurt. I would move on. You can't change the past. Neither can he. And he's back in jail. Is he sorry he hurt people? Traumatized his son? I am not tying to be mean. Just stating what he has done. And it still didn't entice him to quit using drugs, not even after that. His crummy life is on him, nobody else. And he doesn't seem motivated to change. And he is almost 50. When will he see the light? Of course his life is damaged. HE DID IT AND STILL IS. Sometimes those we love dearly do wrong and suffer for it. Sometimes we just have to accept what is. I think therapy for you would help you lots and lots and I believe you deserve to be happy. You did nothing wrong and your son is on his own with this. Nobody can help him. It doesn't undo his history if you suffer at home and refuse to be happy. Please live your life!!! :) it helps him not a bit for you to suffer too. [/QUOTE]
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