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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 520151" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>Sorry for the rushing answer. No electricity at home, so I rely on 3G. I'll provide a longer post ASAP. </p><p></p><p>DaisyFace, the sentence between quotation marks is what my stepmother, so my dad's wife, dared to state about my mom for many years (and too many time to count). She thought that being a psychologist makes her entitle to say something like that, or to say that social services would have done better than my mom etc etc... She couldn't conceive, so she was desperate to parent a child, so, in her head, as she is a psychologist, she can judge a parent incompetent and substitute him if it deals with family. She was more than wrong.</p><p>I arrived somewhat at a moment that I couldn't accept her being as hurtful for my mom. Her being unable to conceive at these times is absolutely not an excuse for this awful sentence between quotation mark. It was hard. It was painful. But it was necessary. </p><p>So I came to a point that dad's wife won't be able to rely on me, even if she were on her death bed or in desperate need for money to pay medical care she would need to survive. I came to the point that her emotional abuse has lasted too long to let her go right, like if nothing happened. </p><p>So I came to a point that no matter what happens to her, even if she were on her death bed, it shall absolutely not be my problem at all. </p><p>My sister is on the same page with me. We came to a point that it doesn't worth spending any kind of energy with stepmother. If it happens something to stepmother, it's her problem, not ours, she will have to deal with it by herself (That's why I said "same with my sister" : we both faced stepmother as manipulative, abuser, liar, and we have always been on the same page to deal with her). </p><p></p><p>About my mom and sister, they were and are still my best support. I thank them dearly for that. </p><p>Mom didn't deserve the blame and the hell that dad's wife said about her. </p><p>I credit my sister for her love despite the hells, and my mom for never giving up despite she would wish.</p><p></p><p>Hope it clarifies the misunderstanding I created : I spoke Greek instead of English (because I speak Modern Greek as foreign language).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 520151, member: 14306"] Sorry for the rushing answer. No electricity at home, so I rely on 3G. I'll provide a longer post ASAP. DaisyFace, the sentence between quotation marks is what my stepmother, so my dad's wife, dared to state about my mom for many years (and too many time to count). She thought that being a psychologist makes her entitle to say something like that, or to say that social services would have done better than my mom etc etc... She couldn't conceive, so she was desperate to parent a child, so, in her head, as she is a psychologist, she can judge a parent incompetent and substitute him if it deals with family. She was more than wrong. I arrived somewhat at a moment that I couldn't accept her being as hurtful for my mom. Her being unable to conceive at these times is absolutely not an excuse for this awful sentence between quotation mark. It was hard. It was painful. But it was necessary. So I came to a point that dad's wife won't be able to rely on me, even if she were on her death bed or in desperate need for money to pay medical care she would need to survive. I came to the point that her emotional abuse has lasted too long to let her go right, like if nothing happened. So I came to a point that no matter what happens to her, even if she were on her death bed, it shall absolutely not be my problem at all. My sister is on the same page with me. We came to a point that it doesn't worth spending any kind of energy with stepmother. If it happens something to stepmother, it's her problem, not ours, she will have to deal with it by herself (That's why I said "same with my sister" : we both faced stepmother as manipulative, abuser, liar, and we have always been on the same page to deal with her). About my mom and sister, they were and are still my best support. I thank them dearly for that. Mom didn't deserve the blame and the hell that dad's wife said about her. I credit my sister for her love despite the hells, and my mom for never giving up despite she would wish. Hope it clarifies the misunderstanding I created : I spoke Greek instead of English (because I speak Modern Greek as foreign language). [/QUOTE]
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