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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 496260" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Daisy, I am fluent in ASL and we have deaf people around us a lot of the time... he gets very triggered by sign language too.. just gets so mad exactly like oral language. LOL I wish that would work... we just didn't do it. He blurted swears out all night which was worse than any other time I have gone out with him... give me that you b and what the f etc... on and on. But most of the time he was quiet. then at the transition time...several went to the restroom and he swore at my sisters all teh way there and shoved my mom (I wasn't there so not sure if they were telling him to stop and so he got physical... that usually happens esp with my youngest sister) and so my middle sister told me that my youngest sister told q he couldnt' have his birthday gift and they drove away. </p><p>It was a gift they had all gone in on. I guess it is her choice. He said from the beginning he wanted me to talk fo rhim etc. He really wanted this, it was all his idea but I have decided we are not going to do any group or family things for a long time. It is too much for him. </p><p></p><p>when my sister N asked me how I wanted to handle that I said nothing. What could I say? The decision was made. He was not getting a gift. I have never done that to any of their kids when they were bratty (and they are good kids but even tonight were KIDS, laughing too much, saying inappropriate things etc. But you can tell them to stop and they can. </p><p></p><p>I have mixed feelings. I wonder how they handled his swearing while he was walking to the rest rooms (that would be a guarantee time for swearing lately) so if they said anything to stop him he would for sure get physical. I wish they would let it roll off their backs a little more.. no one was around. </p><p></p><p>But I dont think he should get a reward for acting like that either. Just really a bummer. </p><p></p><p>I wish she would have left it to me I guess... I never make parenting decisions for her. She often does for me... just escalates him constantly. I wish it wasn't so but she just does not have the patience or ability to see the bigger picture with her own anxiety and two kids who have more minor issues but issues none-the-less. </p><p></p><p>Oh well, it was theirs not to give. He didn't even know they had it though... they could just have not brought it up. She had to say that they ahd a present ( an electric scooter) for them in the car but he can't have it now. He will likely be even worse next time he sees them because he will be angry and hurt and upset.</p><p></p><p>Should I keep him home tomorrow? He has had issues since Sat late night and now today... only when we are around other people... He wants to use his new fm system again at school but I wonder if he is going to be too blurty not to be kicked out. Mondays are always the worst days.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 496260, member: 12886"] Daisy, I am fluent in ASL and we have deaf people around us a lot of the time... he gets very triggered by sign language too.. just gets so mad exactly like oral language. LOL I wish that would work... we just didn't do it. He blurted swears out all night which was worse than any other time I have gone out with him... give me that you b and what the f etc... on and on. But most of the time he was quiet. then at the transition time...several went to the restroom and he swore at my sisters all teh way there and shoved my mom (I wasn't there so not sure if they were telling him to stop and so he got physical... that usually happens esp with my youngest sister) and so my middle sister told me that my youngest sister told q he couldnt' have his birthday gift and they drove away. It was a gift they had all gone in on. I guess it is her choice. He said from the beginning he wanted me to talk fo rhim etc. He really wanted this, it was all his idea but I have decided we are not going to do any group or family things for a long time. It is too much for him. when my sister N asked me how I wanted to handle that I said nothing. What could I say? The decision was made. He was not getting a gift. I have never done that to any of their kids when they were bratty (and they are good kids but even tonight were KIDS, laughing too much, saying inappropriate things etc. But you can tell them to stop and they can. I have mixed feelings. I wonder how they handled his swearing while he was walking to the rest rooms (that would be a guarantee time for swearing lately) so if they said anything to stop him he would for sure get physical. I wish they would let it roll off their backs a little more.. no one was around. But I dont think he should get a reward for acting like that either. Just really a bummer. I wish she would have left it to me I guess... I never make parenting decisions for her. She often does for me... just escalates him constantly. I wish it wasn't so but she just does not have the patience or ability to see the bigger picture with her own anxiety and two kids who have more minor issues but issues none-the-less. Oh well, it was theirs not to give. He didn't even know they had it though... they could just have not brought it up. She had to say that they ahd a present ( an electric scooter) for them in the car but he can't have it now. He will likely be even worse next time he sees them because he will be angry and hurt and upset. Should I keep him home tomorrow? He has had issues since Sat late night and now today... only when we are around other people... He wants to use his new fm system again at school but I wonder if he is going to be too blurty not to be kicked out. Mondays are always the worst days. [/QUOTE]
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