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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 496408" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I agree, it all happened so fast, as we were leaving so people were walking to cars and going to the rest room etc.... It all just happened and I was focused on getting him into my car and home to calm down. </p><p></p><p>He asked me to pull over while driving out, he got out and ran over to my sister's car and said sorry to all of them.... I heard him call out to me... mom I did already say sorry to nana right? and I said yes you did so I suspect that was their answer when he said he was sorry. They always do accept his apology. NONE of the kids went off on him today and that was a refresher. I think my other sister told the kids this was Q's day and to just move away if he is bugging them. (we ended up with three kids sitting by us by the end of hte night, lol.</p><p></p><p>Q just loves his family. They love him too, tons of hugs and kisses and no one else can say or do anything against him.. they will back him up. But this sister has big time difficult child issues herself. Always drama, always stress, she is the one a while back I told you guys was pregnant again and having an abortion... then she lost the baby anyway.... then right after she was evicted from her apt. then got that back,...her daughter has major fits and is now going to a "social skils" group at school because she is so bossy. She is always being torn between her mom and her dad both of whom love her but my sister days ugly things about her dad... the reason? she feels bad for her son who is older and does not have a dad... doesn't want him to feel badly that daughter gets to have so much from her dad. she KNOWS that is wrong, it is just how she feels... she gets mad at herself too. </p><p></p><p>she has always been a drama queen and very self centered,.... she loves really deeply, I have no doubt of her love for Q. she just has no ability to think things thru before she acts. She responds to him as if he was her son and forgets that he really does not have the ability to do better at those times. She just really feels he has to "learn". and it was hard for me I suppose because it felt just like admin at school... one way to handle it and that is the only way. Just makes me sad. </p><p></p><p>I have a few little pimples and wonder if I finally am getting my cycle back since the stopping of it when Q entered psychiatric hospital. I have that overall, even commercials on tv make me cry, sad feeling... so this has been hard to sort through. I have to make priorities because tomorrow I have to deal with this whole school assessment thing and the swimming issue will come up tomorrow too.</p><p></p><p></p><p>and by the way....LOL (not) I already have a call from school by 10 a.m. today. LUckily Q just forgot his snack bag and asked them to call to see if I woudl bring it. I never do if he refuses to take something then calls later, but this time he had it in his hand and just set it down when putting his shoes on and it was sitting right where he left it so I never cause a power struggle over that stuff. Plus he clearly needs the food. I did talk to him about eating one thing then waiting an hour before eating another thing... dont wait till you are hungery then eat everything and have nothing for later. Who knows, just trying to see if he will try.</p><p></p><p>They said he is using the FM system today and likes it so if nothing else that should be good, that he likes it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 496408, member: 12886"] I agree, it all happened so fast, as we were leaving so people were walking to cars and going to the rest room etc.... It all just happened and I was focused on getting him into my car and home to calm down. He asked me to pull over while driving out, he got out and ran over to my sister's car and said sorry to all of them.... I heard him call out to me... mom I did already say sorry to nana right? and I said yes you did so I suspect that was their answer when he said he was sorry. They always do accept his apology. NONE of the kids went off on him today and that was a refresher. I think my other sister told the kids this was Q's day and to just move away if he is bugging them. (we ended up with three kids sitting by us by the end of hte night, lol. Q just loves his family. They love him too, tons of hugs and kisses and no one else can say or do anything against him.. they will back him up. But this sister has big time difficult child issues herself. Always drama, always stress, she is the one a while back I told you guys was pregnant again and having an abortion... then she lost the baby anyway.... then right after she was evicted from her apt. then got that back,...her daughter has major fits and is now going to a "social skils" group at school because she is so bossy. She is always being torn between her mom and her dad both of whom love her but my sister days ugly things about her dad... the reason? she feels bad for her son who is older and does not have a dad... doesn't want him to feel badly that daughter gets to have so much from her dad. she KNOWS that is wrong, it is just how she feels... she gets mad at herself too. she has always been a drama queen and very self centered,.... she loves really deeply, I have no doubt of her love for Q. she just has no ability to think things thru before she acts. She responds to him as if he was her son and forgets that he really does not have the ability to do better at those times. She just really feels he has to "learn". and it was hard for me I suppose because it felt just like admin at school... one way to handle it and that is the only way. Just makes me sad. I have a few little pimples and wonder if I finally am getting my cycle back since the stopping of it when Q entered psychiatric hospital. I have that overall, even commercials on tv make me cry, sad feeling... so this has been hard to sort through. I have to make priorities because tomorrow I have to deal with this whole school assessment thing and the swimming issue will come up tomorrow too. and by the way....LOL (not) I already have a call from school by 10 a.m. today. LUckily Q just forgot his snack bag and asked them to call to see if I woudl bring it. I never do if he refuses to take something then calls later, but this time he had it in his hand and just set it down when putting his shoes on and it was sitting right where he left it so I never cause a power struggle over that stuff. Plus he clearly needs the food. I did talk to him about eating one thing then waiting an hour before eating another thing... dont wait till you are hungery then eat everything and have nothing for later. Who knows, just trying to see if he will try. They said he is using the FM system today and likes it so if nothing else that should be good, that he likes it. [/QUOTE]
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