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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 280112" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>Yes he did. Yesterday husband went to a 'graduation' ceremony at difficult child's school. The kid difficult child stole from and his parent were there, and husband talked to to both of them. This is a legitimate gift.</p><p> </p><p>The irony, this gift is from the kid that husband previously said was a criminal (because he went to that school and all the kids in that school are criminals) and said the other kid probably stole the Nintendo DS. Now it turns out difficult child's victim was actually a nice person. Maybe I should ask husband why he's allowing difficult child to accept stolen goods from a criminal?</p><p> </p><p>(husband will say...oh, I just said that because I was upset because difficult child was about to go into the psychiatric hospital. husband always says that the things he says when he's upset don't really 'count', our marriage counsellor supports this view, however, I've made it clear that they still count with me...but big deal). </p><p> </p><p>I don't know what to do. I know that difficult child is dangerous. Today we are driving 3 hours away to the college town my son is going to and I'm going to buy him a condo. My other son is also graduating from HS this year. If I leave husband, I can send both older kids to that condo to live and then just have to support me and my youngest son here. I shouldn't have any trouble doing that. </p><p> </p><p>But what about my stepdaughter. </p><p> </p><p>by the way...last night I wanted to cut salami and couldn't find my favorite knife. Mentioned it to husband. He went up and searched difficult child's room and found three knives. Not steak knifes but a bread knife, a slicing knife and a small slicing knife.</p><p> </p><p>He yelled at difficult child, who said he didn't take them. husband took away the new gameboy and I heard him yell, "Until you can prove it wasn't you, it's going to be you. I'll help you prove it, I want to get to the bottom of this ****".</p><p> </p><p>husband then went out to the neighborhood pub. </p><p> </p><p>WTH does that mean?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 280112, member: 5169"] Yes he did. Yesterday husband went to a 'graduation' ceremony at difficult child's school. The kid difficult child stole from and his parent were there, and husband talked to to both of them. This is a legitimate gift. The irony, this gift is from the kid that husband previously said was a criminal (because he went to that school and all the kids in that school are criminals) and said the other kid probably stole the Nintendo DS. Now it turns out difficult child's victim was actually a nice person. Maybe I should ask husband why he's allowing difficult child to accept stolen goods from a criminal? (husband will say...oh, I just said that because I was upset because difficult child was about to go into the psychiatric hospital. husband always says that the things he says when he's upset don't really 'count', our marriage counsellor supports this view, however, I've made it clear that they still count with me...but big deal). I don't know what to do. I know that difficult child is dangerous. Today we are driving 3 hours away to the college town my son is going to and I'm going to buy him a condo. My other son is also graduating from HS this year. If I leave husband, I can send both older kids to that condo to live and then just have to support me and my youngest son here. I shouldn't have any trouble doing that. But what about my stepdaughter. by the way...last night I wanted to cut salami and couldn't find my favorite knife. Mentioned it to husband. He went up and searched difficult child's room and found three knives. Not steak knifes but a bread knife, a slicing knife and a small slicing knife. He yelled at difficult child, who said he didn't take them. husband took away the new gameboy and I heard him yell, "Until you can prove it wasn't you, it's going to be you. I'll help you prove it, I want to get to the bottom of this ****". husband then went out to the neighborhood pub. WTH does that mean? [/QUOTE]
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