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<blockquote data-quote="gcvmom" data-source="post: 280142" data-attributes="member: 3444"><p>I think it means he KNOWS there's a problem, and although he may not completely understand or accept it, he's desperate for it to stop. I think the "I'll help you prove it" statement is another example of his codependency out of control. It seems like he thinks he can control difficult child's behavior if he could just be a little stronger or smarter or X or Y or Z or whatever delusional solution he can come up with. He ran to the pub because he can't deal with this. </p><p> </p><p>You've got some very tough decisions to make for yourself. I'm very sorry things are so chaotic and out of control. As much as you worry for your SD, you need to first take care of yourself and your bio kids by whatever means possible. If husband won't acknowledge his own part in this circus, difficult child's treatment or recovery is not likely to work, in my opinion. MWM's suggestion of other family to enlist help from for the SD is a good idea. </p><p> </p><p>I hope you can talk some of this over with a therapist that's there just for YOU. Or a member of the clergy, social worker, etc. </p><p> </p><p>(((((HUGS)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gcvmom, post: 280142, member: 3444"] I think it means he KNOWS there's a problem, and although he may not completely understand or accept it, he's desperate for it to stop. I think the "I'll help you prove it" statement is another example of his codependency out of control. It seems like he thinks he can control difficult child's behavior if he could just be a little stronger or smarter or X or Y or Z or whatever delusional solution he can come up with. He ran to the pub because he can't deal with this. You've got some very tough decisions to make for yourself. I'm very sorry things are so chaotic and out of control. As much as you worry for your SD, you need to first take care of yourself and your bio kids by whatever means possible. If husband won't acknowledge his own part in this circus, difficult child's treatment or recovery is not likely to work, in my opinion. MWM's suggestion of other family to enlist help from for the SD is a good idea. I hope you can talk some of this over with a therapist that's there just for YOU. Or a member of the clergy, social worker, etc. (((((HUGS))))) [/QUOTE]
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