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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 281531" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so glad you saw a lawyer. You really NEED to take action as soon as you possibly can. I just have this feeling that difficult child is setting you or one of your sons to take a major fall. A report to child protection that you are abusing difficult child, police report that YOUR son (s?) have been stealing gameboys and planting them on difficult child, or planting illegal drugs on him. </p><p></p><p>(As for the school telling you that only 1 child is on medication is horse feces. Unless there are only 10 kids in the school.)</p><p></p><p>All that difficult child does that is so unhinged and violent or bordering on violent seems to be staged so that YOU are upset, husband finds a way to sweep it under the rug (isn't it hard to walk across all that crud that is under the rug?), and difficult child gets some kind of reward - even if it is just chaos that is difficult child's reward. </p><p></p><p>i think your wee difficult child is very much an antisocial personality. This means he is very dangerous, very crafty and cunning, and probably that he will end up hurting someone. </p><p></p><p>I cannot give a legal/official diagnosis. So I may just be very very wrong. But I think this kid is setting you up to go broke or worse. He MUST be considered dangerous.</p><p></p><p>I think your husband is at least as dangerous as difficult child. husband is WILLFULLY blind to difficult child and his behaviors. There is no excuse for letting the kid keep stolen property, blowing off the illdegal drugs, ignoring the knives at school, well, ALL of it. </p><p></p><p>husband REFUSES to see this. What example are you setting for your kids by not removing them from this volatile and dangerous situation? Is it the message you want to send to them, the example you want to model for them?</p><p></p><p>Getting the condo in another city is an excellent idea. </p><p></p><p>I am continuing to pray for you and your kids. And even for husband and his difficult child.</p><p></p><p>As for the cruise, maybe you need to insist that difficult child not come or that husband stays glued to him during the cruise. Make sure that you are NOT in a room with husband and difficult child. Keep YOUR room locked, and your sons' rooms locked 24/7.</p><p></p><p>It would not surprise me if the same person who spreads syrup all over the floor and does other bizarre things continues to do this even when on the cruise. How horrible would it be to wake up and find ALL your clothes covered in pancake syrup or jelly or whatever. </p><p></p><p>IF he does any acting out you need to have the cruise staff take him to your husband - refuse to accept any part of it. Because if you are involved you are gonna get blamed.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. This is just gutwrenching. But you may need to insist that you and husband are a family of different addresses until husband finds the care that difficult child needs. It CAN work out. </p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 281531, member: 1233"] I am so glad you saw a lawyer. You really NEED to take action as soon as you possibly can. I just have this feeling that difficult child is setting you or one of your sons to take a major fall. A report to child protection that you are abusing difficult child, police report that YOUR son (s?) have been stealing gameboys and planting them on difficult child, or planting illegal drugs on him. (As for the school telling you that only 1 child is on medication is horse feces. Unless there are only 10 kids in the school.) All that difficult child does that is so unhinged and violent or bordering on violent seems to be staged so that YOU are upset, husband finds a way to sweep it under the rug (isn't it hard to walk across all that crud that is under the rug?), and difficult child gets some kind of reward - even if it is just chaos that is difficult child's reward. i think your wee difficult child is very much an antisocial personality. This means he is very dangerous, very crafty and cunning, and probably that he will end up hurting someone. I cannot give a legal/official diagnosis. So I may just be very very wrong. But I think this kid is setting you up to go broke or worse. He MUST be considered dangerous. I think your husband is at least as dangerous as difficult child. husband is WILLFULLY blind to difficult child and his behaviors. There is no excuse for letting the kid keep stolen property, blowing off the illdegal drugs, ignoring the knives at school, well, ALL of it. husband REFUSES to see this. What example are you setting for your kids by not removing them from this volatile and dangerous situation? Is it the message you want to send to them, the example you want to model for them? Getting the condo in another city is an excellent idea. I am continuing to pray for you and your kids. And even for husband and his difficult child. As for the cruise, maybe you need to insist that difficult child not come or that husband stays glued to him during the cruise. Make sure that you are NOT in a room with husband and difficult child. Keep YOUR room locked, and your sons' rooms locked 24/7. It would not surprise me if the same person who spreads syrup all over the floor and does other bizarre things continues to do this even when on the cruise. How horrible would it be to wake up and find ALL your clothes covered in pancake syrup or jelly or whatever. IF he does any acting out you need to have the cruise staff take him to your husband - refuse to accept any part of it. Because if you are involved you are gonna get blamed. I am so sorry. This is just gutwrenching. But you may need to insist that you and husband are a family of different addresses until husband finds the care that difficult child needs. It CAN work out. Gentle hugs Susie [/QUOTE]
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