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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 128593" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hey,</p><p></p><p>not a bad idea but older one well she doesn't want to acknowledge there's probl with little difficult child. hence big problem for me so she wont' try to learn any tricks on how to deal with it at all i've offerred advice.</p><p></p><p>so as far as space is concerned. to be quite honest there isn't any. the two kids little one's cant' share room because his is a boy. so we need to keep them seperated as far as sleep is concerned. there really isn't space for older difficult child to have any type of privacy at all.</p><p></p><p>i truly wish i could offer her some type of remedy to situation but i cannot . we have 3 bedrooms. ready for this?? during reg. days his kids aren't here girls share their bedroom which is also small it's decorated nice though i let them pick out all their own stuff. the 3rd bedroom is kinda our playroom/bedroom for his son when they come. his two other kids 12 year old girl and 7 year old girl sleep on couch two nights a week. it is insane and packed beyond belief.</p><p></p><p>i wanted to rent a house yet right now with-o me contributing to household it's a no go situation. and i'm not really ready for that kind of move anyway to be quite honest. right now i feel like things should stay status quo for difficult child's until i get evaluation. done and figure out which direction i'll be moving into. quitting job and getting local job was hard enough decision for simple fact i do not want Occupational Therapist (OT) rely on boyfriend for shelter, food, etc. sounds strange i know yet we are not married yet i have no intention of getting married anytime soon.......lol........we've had our ups and downs it's been calm as of late yet there are still issues there as well that confuse me adn aggrivate me as i do aggrivate him with all the tension brought into home by difficult child's to be honest. </p><p></p><p>so for now no out for older one. wish i could provide her with some type of space of her own. was much better in our apt. it was huge room and we lived in community so she could go take walk around complex whenever she needed a breather whereas here it's private nice block yet dont' want her cruising streets at night to get away ya know........</p><p></p><p>i think the only conclusion here is truly to do best i can and wait it out til i have game plan. we also had porch in our last apt. it was beautiful really had my flowers hanging two chairs out there alot of times she'd go out there with phone to talk to friends. it's been hard for us no doubt. i made a reckless decision last year to cut hours the way i did and suffered terribly financially due to that. thought i could make it but cna't look back now can only look forward with hope that i will be able to stabilize it all with time.</p><p></p><p>thanks for suggestions though</p><p>jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 128593, member: 4514"] hey, not a bad idea but older one well she doesn't want to acknowledge there's probl with little difficult child. hence big problem for me so she wont' try to learn any tricks on how to deal with it at all i've offerred advice. so as far as space is concerned. to be quite honest there isn't any. the two kids little one's cant' share room because his is a boy. so we need to keep them seperated as far as sleep is concerned. there really isn't space for older difficult child to have any type of privacy at all. i truly wish i could offer her some type of remedy to situation but i cannot . we have 3 bedrooms. ready for this?? during reg. days his kids aren't here girls share their bedroom which is also small it's decorated nice though i let them pick out all their own stuff. the 3rd bedroom is kinda our playroom/bedroom for his son when they come. his two other kids 12 year old girl and 7 year old girl sleep on couch two nights a week. it is insane and packed beyond belief. i wanted to rent a house yet right now with-o me contributing to household it's a no go situation. and i'm not really ready for that kind of move anyway to be quite honest. right now i feel like things should stay status quo for difficult child's until i get evaluation. done and figure out which direction i'll be moving into. quitting job and getting local job was hard enough decision for simple fact i do not want Occupational Therapist (OT) rely on boyfriend for shelter, food, etc. sounds strange i know yet we are not married yet i have no intention of getting married anytime soon.......lol........we've had our ups and downs it's been calm as of late yet there are still issues there as well that confuse me adn aggrivate me as i do aggrivate him with all the tension brought into home by difficult child's to be honest. so for now no out for older one. wish i could provide her with some type of space of her own. was much better in our apt. it was huge room and we lived in community so she could go take walk around complex whenever she needed a breather whereas here it's private nice block yet dont' want her cruising streets at night to get away ya know........ i think the only conclusion here is truly to do best i can and wait it out til i have game plan. we also had porch in our last apt. it was beautiful really had my flowers hanging two chairs out there alot of times she'd go out there with phone to talk to friends. it's been hard for us no doubt. i made a reckless decision last year to cut hours the way i did and suffered terribly financially due to that. thought i could make it but cna't look back now can only look forward with hope that i will be able to stabilize it all with time. thanks for suggestions though jen [/QUOTE]
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