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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 276057" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You really need to get help for her NOW. If she scares you, an adult, enough to sleep behind locked doors and to make sure your other child is behind a locked door, then she IS A DANGER.</p><p></p><p>Period.</p><p></p><p>It is NOT OK or NORMAL to be afraid to go to sleep in your own home in this country. </p><p></p><p>I hope you have the detectives name and badge number. If something happens he may remember you and your daughter and think of her as the culprit. If you can document that you spoke to the detective and he laughed it off then you will have some legal protection against charges of not keeping other people safe from her. </p><p></p><p>Document that. PLEASE. </p><p></p><p>Kids DO kill. I know there were many dark nights where Jessie slept with us because Wiz was threatening her. </p><p></p><p>Remember that as much as she scares YOU she scares her brother so very very VERY much more. He may actually be aware of much more dangerous and scary things and be afraid to tell you. She very well may have threatened HIM so he would not tell you. </p><p></p><p>Part of this is I think the other parents need to know this. Even if it is a fantasy game, they are still sneaking out at night, and parents NEED to know that. How would YOU feel if a parent knew your child was sneaking out at night to talk about killing and knives and such and the parent didn't tell you? I would be livid, and ready to sue YOU for endangering the minor by not telling the parents. Not your daughter, but YOU and husband could be in trouble because you KNOW that this is going on and it is unsafe.</p><p></p><p>As for normal, well, it is a mathematical concept. It doesn't really exist in life. And how boring it would be if there was only normal, no exceptional anything. </p><p></p><p>It IS possible to start believing things are normal if they happen repeatedly. As my mother says, "Even doing brain surgery can be normal behavior if you are a neurosurgeon." </p><p></p><p>I am so very sorry you are dealing with this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 276057, member: 1233"] You really need to get help for her NOW. If she scares you, an adult, enough to sleep behind locked doors and to make sure your other child is behind a locked door, then she IS A DANGER. Period. It is NOT OK or NORMAL to be afraid to go to sleep in your own home in this country. I hope you have the detectives name and badge number. If something happens he may remember you and your daughter and think of her as the culprit. If you can document that you spoke to the detective and he laughed it off then you will have some legal protection against charges of not keeping other people safe from her. Document that. PLEASE. Kids DO kill. I know there were many dark nights where Jessie slept with us because Wiz was threatening her. Remember that as much as she scares YOU she scares her brother so very very VERY much more. He may actually be aware of much more dangerous and scary things and be afraid to tell you. She very well may have threatened HIM so he would not tell you. Part of this is I think the other parents need to know this. Even if it is a fantasy game, they are still sneaking out at night, and parents NEED to know that. How would YOU feel if a parent knew your child was sneaking out at night to talk about killing and knives and such and the parent didn't tell you? I would be livid, and ready to sue YOU for endangering the minor by not telling the parents. Not your daughter, but YOU and husband could be in trouble because you KNOW that this is going on and it is unsafe. As for normal, well, it is a mathematical concept. It doesn't really exist in life. And how boring it would be if there was only normal, no exceptional anything. It IS possible to start believing things are normal if they happen repeatedly. As my mother says, "Even doing brain surgery can be normal behavior if you are a neurosurgeon." I am so very sorry you are dealing with this. [/QUOTE]
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