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How did life go so wrong???
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 301804" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I hesitate to express my opinion as I fear it will be misinterpreted. My consistent (and truly caring) thought is that you are too dedicated to being as close to perfect as you can get. You have given and given and given. Of course your grief and sadness is real and justified but in my humble opinion you need to allow yourself to focus on Linda the person. You need to focus on Linda. Just Linda....for awhile. Travel or date or something just for you. You can not bring your husband back. You can not make William whole. You can not make KT like the other kids. But...you can let Linda become</p><p>a separate individual entity again and let her find something that makes her laugh and smile. I'm rooting for you. Honestly. I just don't think you can stay tethered to the huge complex issues and make progress toward happiness and health for yourself. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 301804, member: 35"] I hesitate to express my opinion as I fear it will be misinterpreted. My consistent (and truly caring) thought is that you are too dedicated to being as close to perfect as you can get. You have given and given and given. Of course your grief and sadness is real and justified but in my humble opinion you need to allow yourself to focus on Linda the person. You need to focus on Linda. Just Linda....for awhile. Travel or date or something just for you. You can not bring your husband back. You can not make William whole. You can not make KT like the other kids. But...you can let Linda become a separate individual entity again and let her find something that makes her laugh and smile. I'm rooting for you. Honestly. I just don't think you can stay tethered to the huge complex issues and make progress toward happiness and health for yourself. DDD [/QUOTE]
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