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How do I accept that she is coming home?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 252899" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry. There are no words to express how strange and stupid I find this plan of "reunification". I think you need to contemplate disrupting the adoption. Not saying you should do it, or shouldn't do it. Just that you, and husband, should THINK about it.</p><p></p><p>You need to work with a therapist to help deal with this. Making a safety plan and starting to implement it is a good idea. I think the other kids should have personal alarms so they can sound them off if they are in danger and no adults are right there.</p><p></p><p>(That REALLY helped Jess deal with the panic - it seemed to help her feel empowered.)</p><p></p><p>The kids should NOT be surprised with Residential Treatment Center (RTC) visits or home visits by kanga. They need time to prepare, and to find coping tools to help them with this. You may need in home help for them to deal with this. At least, in my opinion.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. Sending 200&#37; support for whatever you decide.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 252899, member: 1233"] I am so sorry. There are no words to express how strange and stupid I find this plan of "reunification". I think you need to contemplate disrupting the adoption. Not saying you should do it, or shouldn't do it. Just that you, and husband, should THINK about it. You need to work with a therapist to help deal with this. Making a safety plan and starting to implement it is a good idea. I think the other kids should have personal alarms so they can sound them off if they are in danger and no adults are right there. (That REALLY helped Jess deal with the panic - it seemed to help her feel empowered.) The kids should NOT be surprised with Residential Treatment Center (RTC) visits or home visits by kanga. They need time to prepare, and to find coping tools to help them with this. You may need in home help for them to deal with this. At least, in my opinion. I am so sorry. Sending 200% support for whatever you decide. [/QUOTE]
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