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How do I go about getting my son to move out
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<blockquote data-quote="Elsieshaye" data-source="post: 468483" data-attributes="member: 12928"><p>So. I installed the window and door alarms. Here's hoping I don't set them off myself, lol. Those suckers are LOUD. </p><p></p><p>I texted DS this morning to find out if he'd ever found his cell phone. If he hadn't, I was going to cancel the service. He called me back about 4 hours later to let me know that he had it, and that he had left the thing of my mother's that he had thrown away on the front mat. (Apparently, he dug it out of the trash when I threw him out, and was giving it back to me as a peace offering. It's an electronic device, so I'm pretty sure it won't be there when I get back from work, but anyway.)</p><p></p><p>I reminded him that it wasn't safe for him to come back to the property because they were going to get him for trespassing, and then said goodbye. A couple of hours later, I get this weird voice mail from him. Apparently, he wants to participate in a study on Conduct Disorder being done by a local medical group, and he's going to text me their number so that I can participate too and give them his medical history. Honestly, I think he was high when he called me. </p><p></p><p>I think the plan for the next few weeks is to just let all calls go to voice mail, and to pretty much say no to anything he asks of me, unless it involves him wanting to get the rest of his stuff. I'm predicting that there will be some more oblique attempts at contact before the demands to come home start (which will be met with a no). I've only had one full day of living on my own, without anyone criticising, mocking, harassing or demanding anything of me, and already I'm digging my heels in and not wanting to let go of it. I can't express how wonderful the peace has been. </p><p></p><p>Any more predictions on what his next approaches might be? I'm trying to build a stock of scenarios and responses in my head so that I don't feel quite so broad-sided by things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsieshaye, post: 468483, member: 12928"] So. I installed the window and door alarms. Here's hoping I don't set them off myself, lol. Those suckers are LOUD. I texted DS this morning to find out if he'd ever found his cell phone. If he hadn't, I was going to cancel the service. He called me back about 4 hours later to let me know that he had it, and that he had left the thing of my mother's that he had thrown away on the front mat. (Apparently, he dug it out of the trash when I threw him out, and was giving it back to me as a peace offering. It's an electronic device, so I'm pretty sure it won't be there when I get back from work, but anyway.) I reminded him that it wasn't safe for him to come back to the property because they were going to get him for trespassing, and then said goodbye. A couple of hours later, I get this weird voice mail from him. Apparently, he wants to participate in a study on Conduct Disorder being done by a local medical group, and he's going to text me their number so that I can participate too and give them his medical history. Honestly, I think he was high when he called me. I think the plan for the next few weeks is to just let all calls go to voice mail, and to pretty much say no to anything he asks of me, unless it involves him wanting to get the rest of his stuff. I'm predicting that there will be some more oblique attempts at contact before the demands to come home start (which will be met with a no). I've only had one full day of living on my own, without anyone criticising, mocking, harassing or demanding anything of me, and already I'm digging my heels in and not wanting to let go of it. I can't express how wonderful the peace has been. Any more predictions on what his next approaches might be? I'm trying to build a stock of scenarios and responses in my head so that I don't feel quite so broad-sided by things. [/QUOTE]
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