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How do we get him out on his own?
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 366750" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>A contract is a legal and binding document, if signed by all parties. If you're up for it, you write up the contract and agree to do a weekly review. If he is sleeping, doing less than the entire job with his chores, hanging around with minors (OMG ARE YOU IN FOR SOME TROUBLE IF YOU DON'T MAKE HIM STOP OR GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!), and locking himself in his room, he's not a very good house guest. But if those are the terms you are comfortable with, then you should let him stay.</p><p></p><p>I do know how difficult it is to tell them to get their act together or leave. I know how ugly and even how violent that they can be. If you love him and want him to be anything other than a slug on your sofa, you'll have to be the bad guy and make him leave. That's how you become the good guy who made him a man.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 366750, member: 99"] A contract is a legal and binding document, if signed by all parties. If you're up for it, you write up the contract and agree to do a weekly review. If he is sleeping, doing less than the entire job with his chores, hanging around with minors (OMG ARE YOU IN FOR SOME TROUBLE IF YOU DON'T MAKE HIM STOP OR GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!), and locking himself in his room, he's not a very good house guest. But if those are the terms you are comfortable with, then you should let him stay. I do know how difficult it is to tell them to get their act together or leave. I know how ugly and even how violent that they can be. If you love him and want him to be anything other than a slug on your sofa, you'll have to be the bad guy and make him leave. That's how you become the good guy who made him a man. [/QUOTE]
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