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How do you deal with an ex who won't leave you alone?
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 558181" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>You told him exactly right. It's not easy to ignore her texts and calls, but he NEEDS to. He MUST concentrate on work and being the best father he can.</p><p></p><p>Does he talk to his son nightly when he is with his mother? Just wondering.</p><p></p><p>We ended up having to set bio's ringtone to silent. It was just too much, otherwise. And then she started calling <em>me</em> and demanding money, etc. I finally had husband tell her (via the website we used) that unless it was an emergency having to do with the kids, to NOT EVER call or text me... And she did anyway, but not as much - and it ALWAYS went to voice mail. I never spoke with her without a witness after that, and by leaving a voice mail she agreed to be recorded. The final straw was really when she started having the kids call and demand money or say horrible things (you could hear her in the background coaching them).</p><p></p><p>I know the loan seems like a horrible idea but... This is his child's <em>life</em>. I normally would advocate for him to try to get along with his ex, because that is what is best for the child. However this brings back all the koi we dealt with and to be perfectly honest scares me to death.</p><p></p><p>...If it weren't for your grandson... Sigh. What she is doing <em>is</em> telecommunications harassment, however...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 558181, member: 6705"] You told him exactly right. It's not easy to ignore her texts and calls, but he NEEDS to. He MUST concentrate on work and being the best father he can. Does he talk to his son nightly when he is with his mother? Just wondering. We ended up having to set bio's ringtone to silent. It was just too much, otherwise. And then she started calling [I]me[/I] and demanding money, etc. I finally had husband tell her (via the website we used) that unless it was an emergency having to do with the kids, to NOT EVER call or text me... And she did anyway, but not as much - and it ALWAYS went to voice mail. I never spoke with her without a witness after that, and by leaving a voice mail she agreed to be recorded. The final straw was really when she started having the kids call and demand money or say horrible things (you could hear her in the background coaching them). I know the loan seems like a horrible idea but... This is his child's [I]life[/I]. I normally would advocate for him to try to get along with his ex, because that is what is best for the child. However this brings back all the koi we dealt with and to be perfectly honest scares me to death. ...If it weren't for your grandson... Sigh. What she is doing [I]is[/I] telecommunications harassment, however... [/QUOTE]
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