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<blockquote data-quote="bigbear11" data-source="post: 536542"><p>Keista,</p><p></p><p>Her rages are most always worse when we restrain becuase she fights being held and gets physical back. Yes...I know then it seem so counterproductive to ever do it. She definately know that the behavior was bad. She is sorry... but we are trying to help her understand that sorry is just a word and while nice doesn't mean much unless she tries to control herself. </p><p></p><p>Last fall she went about 3 months with admirable self control. When she started getting upset, she would recognize it and go into a closet and color and visibly try to calm herself down. It was great and she was proud of herself. Then things went south again. There was no medication change... nothing different other than the holidays and she started up again. I think that is the hardest thing for us to wrap our heads around... how could she go that long and us see her trying to control herself and then now... not making any effort at all. It is almost as if she tries to key herself up even more during the rage rather than the opposite.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bigbear11, post: 536542"] Keista, Her rages are most always worse when we restrain becuase she fights being held and gets physical back. Yes...I know then it seem so counterproductive to ever do it. She definately know that the behavior was bad. She is sorry... but we are trying to help her understand that sorry is just a word and while nice doesn't mean much unless she tries to control herself. Last fall she went about 3 months with admirable self control. When she started getting upset, she would recognize it and go into a closet and color and visibly try to calm herself down. It was great and she was proud of herself. Then things went south again. There was no medication change... nothing different other than the holidays and she started up again. I think that is the hardest thing for us to wrap our heads around... how could she go that long and us see her trying to control herself and then now... not making any effort at all. It is almost as if she tries to key herself up even more during the rage rather than the opposite. [/QUOTE]
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