When my sister left her husband and ran off with a married man in 1985 she was so ashamed that she never spoke to my father again until my mother got cancer in 1998 and she came over to help out, but she still never apologized or made up with him. That broke his and my mothers hearts, yet I stuck up for her that entire 13 years and kept trying to get the family back together. That is the only reason that she wasn't written out of my mother's will, and as soon as she got her hands on the money she dumped me and I haven't spoken to her since. But I'd do the same thing again I guess because what I did was the right thing to do.
I can understand your hurt that your sibs did not stick up for you. They were only looking out for themselves. I know that if the tables were turned in my situation my sister would have encouraged my family to forget about me so that I would be written out of the will and she would be the sole beneficiary. I KNOW it! That is just evil. But like I said before - she will get what is coming to her one day and that promise of justice keeps me going.
I'm so sorry for your pain.
