No, you didn't bore me at all. You helped. It makes me see how petty these things really are when I read about somebody else. I need to work on getting over this in my life.
Thank you also, Teri. I *was* trying to take the biggest steps and forgive her for all she did to me--I even took 100% of the blame, but she didn't want my forgiveness. It felt good when you pointed out that I did try to be the better person. I can't control her reaction to it and I'm starting to see that she must have been pretty damaged to have cut off her daughter and grandchildren over $5000. The thing is, she could have easily afforded the tax on it, but she wanted to make ME give the money to my son and not give any to my other kids. I think so anyways. Truly, I don't get it. I would never pit my kids against one another. She didn't really want me and my sister to be close--she got her wish. Oh, well.
