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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 502213"><p>Here, it was easy to give the ulitmatum because she treated everyone in the house like pure ****. She thought every one was a servant to her. Reading everyone's responses here, I always see one common theme - at one point we all seem to have placated our difficult child's, walked on eggshells, etc.</p><p></p><p>But, I digress, after her treating everyone this way, getting expelled from school, in legal trouble, going out for days partying and coming home only to crash and eat everything in the kitchen, doing absolutely nothing with her life and too messed up on drugs to even try to puppet her to do anything, enough was enough. I found a meth pipe and told her if she is going to live here, she needed to go to treatment. It has been just about a year since she chose to be on her own. She is now a professional couch surfer learning life the hard way and still refusing treatment. </p><p></p><p>But, we are no longer slaves to her moods. My house is ALWAYS a peaceful place for me to come home to and I look forward to coming home, where before I dreaded it. I still worry and obssess about her daily, though. Hoovers beyond belief to care more about them than they do about themselves. </p><p></p><p>You painted an okay picture at first but after reading more all I can think is....hmmm, hanging out with losers, partying, keeps losing jobs and doing drugs...</p><p></p><p>As everyone else said, we all have our own thresholds. But seems he has it pretty easy as things are, so what reasons does he have to change?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 502213"] Here, it was easy to give the ulitmatum because she treated everyone in the house like pure ****. She thought every one was a servant to her. Reading everyone's responses here, I always see one common theme - at one point we all seem to have placated our difficult child's, walked on eggshells, etc. But, I digress, after her treating everyone this way, getting expelled from school, in legal trouble, going out for days partying and coming home only to crash and eat everything in the kitchen, doing absolutely nothing with her life and too messed up on drugs to even try to puppet her to do anything, enough was enough. I found a meth pipe and told her if she is going to live here, she needed to go to treatment. It has been just about a year since she chose to be on her own. She is now a professional couch surfer learning life the hard way and still refusing treatment. But, we are no longer slaves to her moods. My house is ALWAYS a peaceful place for me to come home to and I look forward to coming home, where before I dreaded it. I still worry and obssess about her daily, though. Hoovers beyond belief to care more about them than they do about themselves. You painted an okay picture at first but after reading more all I can think is....hmmm, hanging out with losers, partying, keeps losing jobs and doing drugs... As everyone else said, we all have our own thresholds. But seems he has it pretty easy as things are, so what reasons does he have to change? [/QUOTE]
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