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<blockquote data-quote="wastedpotential" data-source="post: 502295" data-attributes="member: 13601"><p>Hugs to all of you, and an extra one for (((LMS))). One of my nightmares, although at one point we thought that maybe prison is just what he needs.</p><p></p><p>I didn't see him last night, he got home a few minutes after I went to bed. This morning he told me that he spoke to his aunt about staying there during the week and just coming home on the weekends. His job is 5 minutes from them and an hour from us. He said he can save money on gas that way and wear and tear on his car. I asked him what she said and he said she will talk to brother in law. </p><p></p><p>Very interesting dynamic there...she has a lot of her own issues and has always been close with difficult child, often playing good cop to our bad cop. She has a lot of mental health issues. I have a feeling she will love being the one to 'save' difficult child. Interestingly, she has always been one to be strict with her own two boys, lots of rules in her house, so we'll see how that plays out with difficult child, who always thought we were unreasonable with our rules. </p><p></p><p>There are so many years of a lot of dysfunction in our relationship with sister in law. This is who my son runs to---not too hard to figure out the psychiatric stuff on that one. </p><p></p><p>I still want to have a conversation with him about the coke and xanax. Later if he decides to come home at a reasonable time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wastedpotential, post: 502295, member: 13601"] Hugs to all of you, and an extra one for (((LMS))). One of my nightmares, although at one point we thought that maybe prison is just what he needs. I didn't see him last night, he got home a few minutes after I went to bed. This morning he told me that he spoke to his aunt about staying there during the week and just coming home on the weekends. His job is 5 minutes from them and an hour from us. He said he can save money on gas that way and wear and tear on his car. I asked him what she said and he said she will talk to brother in law. Very interesting dynamic there...she has a lot of her own issues and has always been close with difficult child, often playing good cop to our bad cop. She has a lot of mental health issues. I have a feeling she will love being the one to 'save' difficult child. Interestingly, she has always been one to be strict with her own two boys, lots of rules in her house, so we'll see how that plays out with difficult child, who always thought we were unreasonable with our rules. There are so many years of a lot of dysfunction in our relationship with sister in law. This is who my son runs to---not too hard to figure out the psychiatric stuff on that one. I still want to have a conversation with him about the coke and xanax. Later if he decides to come home at a reasonable time. [/QUOTE]
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