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<blockquote data-quote="Calista" data-source="post: 116710" data-attributes="member: 666"><p>Before you make the decision to tell her there are other things to consider: Does he see her? Does she understand the difference between "good touch" and "bad touch?" Are you absolutely sure she hasn't been abused?</p><p></p><p>If she never sees her father then I wouldn't tell her for many years, if ever. Children often associate their parents traits with their own so, if she is already having problems (that aren't related to abuse) and she finds out that her father is a pedophile then she will feel that she is bad because her father is bad and that is not something you can take away or treat with medications. If there is no real need for her to know then why tell her?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Calista, post: 116710, member: 666"] Before you make the decision to tell her there are other things to consider: Does he see her? Does she understand the difference between "good touch" and "bad touch?" Are you absolutely sure she hasn't been abused? If she never sees her father then I wouldn't tell her for many years, if ever. Children often associate their parents traits with their own so, if she is already having problems (that aren't related to abuse) and she finds out that her father is a pedophile then she will feel that she is bad because her father is bad and that is not something you can take away or treat with medications. If there is no real need for her to know then why tell her? [/QUOTE]
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