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How I spent 1-2-2013
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 571795" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>However I would caution not send a child a message, that they did it for themselves, they are supposed to be bullied and treated cruelly, because they are faulty. That is okay for others to treat them like koi and they deserve that. And that is danger if you just ignore the bullying and concentrate on what your daughter did wrong and what is wrong with her. It is more urgent to cut more harm happening than start of the reasons person is putting themselves on the harms way.</p><p></p><p>If a person is abused by their spouse, it doesn't help a lot to treat anxiety or depression of the victim and wonder why they would want to choose to be beaten weekly when the abuse is still going on. And with the kids, if even the parents don't stand up for a kid and try to protect them, how is a kid assumed to think they are worth protecting and doing it for themselves?</p><p></p><p>Your daughter needs help for her issues, but she also needs to be protected and she needs to feel that you and her dad are on her corner.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 571795, member: 14557"] However I would caution not send a child a message, that they did it for themselves, they are supposed to be bullied and treated cruelly, because they are faulty. That is okay for others to treat them like koi and they deserve that. And that is danger if you just ignore the bullying and concentrate on what your daughter did wrong and what is wrong with her. It is more urgent to cut more harm happening than start of the reasons person is putting themselves on the harms way. If a person is abused by their spouse, it doesn't help a lot to treat anxiety or depression of the victim and wonder why they would want to choose to be beaten weekly when the abuse is still going on. And with the kids, if even the parents don't stand up for a kid and try to protect them, how is a kid assumed to think they are worth protecting and doing it for themselves? Your daughter needs help for her issues, but she also needs to be protected and she needs to feel that you and her dad are on her corner. [/QUOTE]
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