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<blockquote data-quote="Chaosuncontained" data-source="post: 472971" data-attributes="member: 11016"><p>She is respectful to me--I am the closest to her. I do suspect drugs. I have heard from an ex boyfriend (not mentioned in earlier post) who still cares for her deeply told me that she takes "bars" A LOT! She isn't on prescription medicine. She is only cooperative when there is something in it for her. SHe can drive out to my house (an hour from where she is now) if it means she might get some gas money (ie: alcohol or pot money). Bipolar is MY diagnosis. </p><p></p><p>I'm not saying that Calie didn't grow up in a "hard" childhood. She is 10 years older than our other children. She had me and Dad all to herself for 10 years. There was a CPS case against a family member for "kissing her inappropriatley" around that same time. She did have counselling for that. At age 14 she started climbing out her bathroom window at night. She has had numerous sexual partners. She started smoking pot at 17. Underage drinking at 18. Ex and I divorced when Calie was 17. She lived with her Dad some, me the rest of the time. Per the CO she could decide where to live. When she turned 18 she started living with her grandmother. Mainly because grandmother spoiled her, let her stay out very late, gave her money.</p><p></p><p></p><p>She really thinks that because she is blonde, tiny and has a cute figure that she can get by with anything. She isn't concerned AT ALL for her illegal behavior. She excuses it all. "Well, it's not like I HURT anyone" or "All the kids my age have these same problems". She is convinced that her mail tamperng case will be dropped "because they haven't done anything yet". She told us that she has no morals. She asked me today "Everyone wants me to *change*--change WHAT? I'm not doing anything wrong!" She also told me that she hasn't done anything "bad" in awhile. I had to remind her that she had JUST told me that she had keyed an exboyfriends Fathers truck and that she had recieved TWO more tickets.</p><p></p><p>Thank you for reminding me to take care of me. Between Calie and Carson (my difficult child wonder boy) I am always stressed and exhausted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Chaosuncontained, post: 472971, member: 11016"] She is respectful to me--I am the closest to her. I do suspect drugs. I have heard from an ex boyfriend (not mentioned in earlier post) who still cares for her deeply told me that she takes "bars" A LOT! She isn't on prescription medicine. She is only cooperative when there is something in it for her. SHe can drive out to my house (an hour from where she is now) if it means she might get some gas money (ie: alcohol or pot money). Bipolar is MY diagnosis. I'm not saying that Calie didn't grow up in a "hard" childhood. She is 10 years older than our other children. She had me and Dad all to herself for 10 years. There was a CPS case against a family member for "kissing her inappropriatley" around that same time. She did have counselling for that. At age 14 she started climbing out her bathroom window at night. She has had numerous sexual partners. She started smoking pot at 17. Underage drinking at 18. Ex and I divorced when Calie was 17. She lived with her Dad some, me the rest of the time. Per the CO she could decide where to live. When she turned 18 she started living with her grandmother. Mainly because grandmother spoiled her, let her stay out very late, gave her money. She really thinks that because she is blonde, tiny and has a cute figure that she can get by with anything. She isn't concerned AT ALL for her illegal behavior. She excuses it all. "Well, it's not like I HURT anyone" or "All the kids my age have these same problems". She is convinced that her mail tamperng case will be dropped "because they haven't done anything yet". She told us that she has no morals. She asked me today "Everyone wants me to *change*--change WHAT? I'm not doing anything wrong!" She also told me that she hasn't done anything "bad" in awhile. I had to remind her that she had JUST told me that she had keyed an exboyfriends Fathers truck and that she had recieved TWO more tickets. Thank you for reminding me to take care of me. Between Calie and Carson (my difficult child wonder boy) I am always stressed and exhausted. [/QUOTE]
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