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How Older difficult child's Cope With boyfriend/girlfriend Breakups?
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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 40109"><p>difficult child is only 12, although he has "girlfriends". they talk on the phone and on line. He has had "breakups", didn't bother him. He is really to young. But easy child...OMG..First serious relation ship of two years ended. he was in college. he didn't eat for a week (he tells me now), He didn't sleep. He came home and I sent him to Texas to visit his best friend who just moved there.</p><p>(this girl went away second semseter for exchange student...My easy child cheated on her with her best friend) Here I was feeling so bad for him until I found out what he did.</p><p>After two years of being a roommate to this girl (5 roommates) and doing everything in his power to win her back, he moved home (2.5 hours away).</p><p>Second love of his life. Also two years. she came here to go to college. when she graduated she moved back to her home town 3 hrs away. Promised she would come every weekend. lol. that lasted about a month. She said she couldn't worry about him and what he is doing. (he bought it) then she would call and tell him she spent the night at a boys house..(stab him and twist the knife). i couldn't say anything because he would defend her. Then she would call, and call, and call. He finally told her the SHE broke up with him. It has been 10 months. He is still very sad and we try to avoid the subject. Still has her pictures up in his room.</p><p>I would much rather have a "dumper" than be with the "dumpee".</p><p>Very worried about difficult child. He just blows it off and continues on. But..I am very worried about his reactions since they are so intense. Never know if he is going to be ok, or if he is going to lose it. Surprises me at times.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 40109"] difficult child is only 12, although he has "girlfriends". they talk on the phone and on line. He has had "breakups", didn't bother him. He is really to young. But easy child...OMG..First serious relation ship of two years ended. he was in college. he didn't eat for a week (he tells me now), He didn't sleep. He came home and I sent him to Texas to visit his best friend who just moved there. (this girl went away second semseter for exchange student...My easy child cheated on her with her best friend) Here I was feeling so bad for him until I found out what he did. After two years of being a roommate to this girl (5 roommates) and doing everything in his power to win her back, he moved home (2.5 hours away). Second love of his life. Also two years. she came here to go to college. when she graduated she moved back to her home town 3 hrs away. Promised she would come every weekend. lol. that lasted about a month. She said she couldn't worry about him and what he is doing. (he bought it) then she would call and tell him she spent the night at a boys house..(stab him and twist the knife). i couldn't say anything because he would defend her. Then she would call, and call, and call. He finally told her the SHE broke up with him. It has been 10 months. He is still very sad and we try to avoid the subject. Still has her pictures up in his room. I would much rather have a "dumper" than be with the "dumpee". Very worried about difficult child. He just blows it off and continues on. But..I am very worried about his reactions since they are so intense. Never know if he is going to be ok, or if he is going to lose it. Surprises me at times. [/QUOTE]
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