So, I make my nightly call to D. This is only day 4 by the way. He starts off telling me how roomie stole his MP3 player today. The kid claimed his mom sent it to him. D confronted him, staff took them in a room together, and D showed them the photos he had stored in there that were OBVIOUSLY not roomie's, cuz they were of D and us LOL! I hear staff screaming at D from across the room about talking about other people. I'm thinking to myself, ok...whatever. Ask him how his day was. He says good, a staff lady, Miss M or something or other, took him to the zoo. This staff guy must have heard D tell me and heard Miss M's name and, again, starts yelling from across the room. I have this thought running through my mind, like ***? He tells me he fed the rabbits, held them, etc. I'm like, ok, cool! So, I ask him if he's been sleeping, BECAUSE, since night 1, roomie has some type of continuing Intermittent Explosive Disorder throughout the evening, and D cannot sleep. First night he got 2 hrs. 2nd night, 3 hours. He's weepy, exhausted, and has had a migraine the last 2 nights. He tells me that roomie is making noise, all night long, and the phone goes dead. I can't get back through to residence. I immediately called therapist and left message with him. Now, I can understand if he's telling me about other kids behaviors. Not only do I not care, it's not appropriate, and I'd understand getting a concerning call if this was an issue. But this concerns MY SON, his SLEEP, which leads to his well being. Am I overreacting? Is this typical for Residential Treatment Facility (RTF)? Because, I'm sitting here thinking, if my son cannot express ANY concerns to me - what are THEY hiding? Am I paranoid? I'm angry atm.