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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 211971" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I understand your position, but it's my experience that men tend to be a little clueless when it comes to which woman they want to have trouble with. in my humble opinion they're used to their mommies, so they think that they can ignore the woman they are with because later on behind closed doors she will find a way to forgive him and it's easier than looking bad in public. </p><p></p><p>I agree with him not going for her obvious ploy to undermine your relationship. He probably needs more tools in order to keep things civil, though. Tell him that his best option should she say "I need to talk to you, come here" is "Just a minute" and then not do it. Try "Jennifer and I are in the middle of something right now, maybe you could call me next week?" </p><p></p><p>You have to give him an easy out. It will be polite but she'll get the message. She'll never try it again if he follows through.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 211971, member: 99"] I understand your position, but it's my experience that men tend to be a little clueless when it comes to which woman they want to have trouble with. in my humble opinion they're used to their mommies, so they think that they can ignore the woman they are with because later on behind closed doors she will find a way to forgive him and it's easier than looking bad in public. I agree with him not going for her obvious ploy to undermine your relationship. He probably needs more tools in order to keep things civil, though. Tell him that his best option should she say "I need to talk to you, come here" is "Just a minute" and then not do it. Try "Jennifer and I are in the middle of something right now, maybe you could call me next week?" You have to give him an easy out. It will be polite but she'll get the message. She'll never try it again if he follows through. [/QUOTE]
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