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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 212196" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Jo - Great point. So, accept her instead of beating her??<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/crazy2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":crazy2:" title="crazy :crazy2:" data-shortname=":crazy2:" /></p><p> </p><p>I'm just kidding (me being funny ha ha)))</p><p> </p><p>Your right, I can't allow her to get to me anymore or I'll be in for a world of total stress till the kids are gone and grown. I can't allow anyone to do that to me. That would just be silly.</p><p> </p><p>She's also very open and affectionate with her partner. It kinda freaks us out boyfriend and I. The only reason that it freaks us out is because it upsets his kids, my kids just shake their heads. Yup difficult child has had to learn about all of this stuff. Same way him and I wouldn't go into a lip lock at a child's play is the same way they shouldn't.</p><p> </p><p>Yet him and I together have come to realize that she is who she is and he knows better than anyone how she needs to be the center of attention at all times because she is such an insecure person. That I think is why she starts things wherever we are.</p><p> </p><p>Ok i will feel bad for her, I decided that is the stance I will take. You guys just dont' know all I did for this woman in the beginning and how she trashed me and abused me anyway. I helped her with her relationship with boyfriend's oldest daughter, I helped her when she needed a sitter and boyfriend was at work, I actually gave her money one time for a sitter, the list goes on and on, took picture's last easter cause we had kids and she was upset so i took them and emailed them.</p><p> </p><p>I'm just a really good person. it's my innate nature to trust until I'm taught I cannot trust. I learned quickly with her do not trust!! </p><p> </p><p>anyway thanks for the great advice. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 212196, member: 4514"] Jo - Great point. So, accept her instead of beating her??:crazy2: I'm just kidding (me being funny ha ha))) Your right, I can't allow her to get to me anymore or I'll be in for a world of total stress till the kids are gone and grown. I can't allow anyone to do that to me. That would just be silly. She's also very open and affectionate with her partner. It kinda freaks us out boyfriend and I. The only reason that it freaks us out is because it upsets his kids, my kids just shake their heads. Yup difficult child has had to learn about all of this stuff. Same way him and I wouldn't go into a lip lock at a child's play is the same way they shouldn't. Yet him and I together have come to realize that she is who she is and he knows better than anyone how she needs to be the center of attention at all times because she is such an insecure person. That I think is why she starts things wherever we are. Ok i will feel bad for her, I decided that is the stance I will take. You guys just dont' know all I did for this woman in the beginning and how she trashed me and abused me anyway. I helped her with her relationship with boyfriend's oldest daughter, I helped her when she needed a sitter and boyfriend was at work, I actually gave her money one time for a sitter, the list goes on and on, took picture's last easter cause we had kids and she was upset so i took them and emailed them. I'm just a really good person. it's my innate nature to trust until I'm taught I cannot trust. I learned quickly with her do not trust!! anyway thanks for the great advice. :) [/QUOTE]
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