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<blockquote data-quote="jmama45" data-source="post: 113024" data-attributes="member: 4450"><p>I hear ya all. I am doing what I can do to learn so when and IF I am asked by him for anything, I will be able to evaluate what part I should or shouldn't take. This post is my brain trying to figure out where to put this all in my head.</p><p></p><p>I have not discussed ANY of this with my son. I do not know if he was spoken to about her plan yet. I have no idea what he is thinking his future looks like, other than how hard it will be when he gets out as he told girlfriend that. So I know he realizes that much. </p><p></p><p>For now, I am letting myself feel the emotions of anger, frustration and pain... that is what I need to do to move past it.</p><p></p><p>I have always been quiet mouthed. I dont tell people what I am thinking, I dont just blurt out things or do things to people with no thought, as I believe in thinking before you speak. But as I get older, I am finding I want to use that voice LOL! </p><p></p><p>I guess that is what my struggle is with my son right now, when to say what, how to say it, what can he handle, am I going to make it worse... that sort of thing. </p><p></p><p>I dunno what I am doing and I am not afraid to say so!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jmama45, post: 113024, member: 4450"] I hear ya all. I am doing what I can do to learn so when and IF I am asked by him for anything, I will be able to evaluate what part I should or shouldn't take. This post is my brain trying to figure out where to put this all in my head. I have not discussed ANY of this with my son. I do not know if he was spoken to about her plan yet. I have no idea what he is thinking his future looks like, other than how hard it will be when he gets out as he told girlfriend that. So I know he realizes that much. For now, I am letting myself feel the emotions of anger, frustration and pain... that is what I need to do to move past it. I have always been quiet mouthed. I dont tell people what I am thinking, I dont just blurt out things or do things to people with no thought, as I believe in thinking before you speak. But as I get older, I am finding I want to use that voice LOL! I guess that is what my struggle is with my son right now, when to say what, how to say it, what can he handle, am I going to make it worse... that sort of thing. I dunno what I am doing and I am not afraid to say so! [/QUOTE]
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