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How to detach when grandkids are involved.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 616807" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>She is not a good mom if she is breaking the law and cannot take care of herself. She is not a good mom if she steals from you. She is obviously not a mature or moral person and both are necessary for being a good mom.</p><p></p><p>If t his were me, and again I only speak for myself, I'd go to court and try to get legal custody of the grands. If not, well, it's up to you if you want to let her steal you blind. You are in a difficult situation, but I'd be proving her unfitness and taking both of these parents to court. If you lose, yeah, there is nothing you can do. You have to decide if you and your spouse want to live a good, peaceful life without them in it. There will be no peace if they are in it.</p><p></p><p>At the very least take precautions so that she can never access your bank account, credit cards etc. And cut off the money supply if you are giving her any. Are drugs involved? Does she work? Remember, you will be no good to your grandchildren if you get so stressed out that you develop heart disease, cancer, or die at an early age. You MUST take care of your stress levels even if you tick off your daughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 616807, member: 1550"] She is not a good mom if she is breaking the law and cannot take care of herself. She is not a good mom if she steals from you. She is obviously not a mature or moral person and both are necessary for being a good mom. If t his were me, and again I only speak for myself, I'd go to court and try to get legal custody of the grands. If not, well, it's up to you if you want to let her steal you blind. You are in a difficult situation, but I'd be proving her unfitness and taking both of these parents to court. If you lose, yeah, there is nothing you can do. You have to decide if you and your spouse want to live a good, peaceful life without them in it. There will be no peace if they are in it. At the very least take precautions so that she can never access your bank account, credit cards etc. And cut off the money supply if you are giving her any. Are drugs involved? Does she work? Remember, you will be no good to your grandchildren if you get so stressed out that you develop heart disease, cancer, or die at an early age. You MUST take care of your stress levels even if you tick off your daughter. [/QUOTE]
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