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<blockquote data-quote="End of our rope" data-source="post: 616990" data-attributes="member: 17544"><p>We told the gkids that the reason they had to move back with us is that their mother would not pay her bills. We made sure they understood that you either own a home or you rent a home and that both require money. The father has been so far out of the picture that I don't believe he has any interest in raising them and I am not sure we want him too. We would have to approach him separately as they don't really talk. As I said before telling her to pack and leave is and easy thing for me at this time. I have accepted that she is not the child of our dreams but a person I don't want to know. She has no friends left as she has burned all of her bridges by borrowing money based on lies and of course no pay back. Her mother wants to give her this chance but I have told her that I will not trust anything she says and as far as I am concerned she is a real threat to this family and it's future. We still have a lot of planning to do so when the time comes and it will come she is shown the door. I will not throw my gkids out the door but she is another matter.</p><p></p><p>Just let me say thanks for all the support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="End of our rope, post: 616990, member: 17544"] We told the gkids that the reason they had to move back with us is that their mother would not pay her bills. We made sure they understood that you either own a home or you rent a home and that both require money. The father has been so far out of the picture that I don't believe he has any interest in raising them and I am not sure we want him too. We would have to approach him separately as they don't really talk. As I said before telling her to pack and leave is and easy thing for me at this time. I have accepted that she is not the child of our dreams but a person I don't want to know. She has no friends left as she has burned all of her bridges by borrowing money based on lies and of course no pay back. Her mother wants to give her this chance but I have told her that I will not trust anything she says and as far as I am concerned she is a real threat to this family and it's future. We still have a lot of planning to do so when the time comes and it will come she is shown the door. I will not throw my gkids out the door but she is another matter. Just let me say thanks for all the support. [/QUOTE]
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