Good morning all,
I just don't know any more. I have a 10yo with " adjustment disorder with mixed emotions and conduct disfunction" I think there is more but thats all they are saying he has at the moment. OK We moved in with my boyfriend in sept 08. My difficult child has always been angry for as long as I can remember. There is nothing really that sets him off. We just live minute to minute in our house. My boyfriend has a 10yo with asperg. Who he only sees fri and sat. My difficult child lives in the home mon-fri. My difficult child gets upset often and has these fits and yells and is just mean. Well he was going to his dads for the weekend and he wanted to bring some playstation games. He knows the ones he is not allowed to play. Well my boyfriend saw some of the games he was bringing and called me at work to see if it was ok. I explained no he could not bring them, and told him what ones from the list he could bring. Well my difficult child had a melt down and I came home to a mad boyfriend. Well my boyfriend and his son went to play a game that my difficult child is not allowed to play (Grand theif Auto) and guess what it was out of the case. So I called my husband and asked him to look in the games and tell me what ones were in there. Sure enough my difficult child took that one and stuck it in there with another game. I asked my difficult child why he had done it.. He started yelling at me and would not say he had.. Told me every reason other than the truth. So I told him he had no games or comp for a week.. He is so angry, and hung up on me. I know when I get home today it is going to be a fight. My boyfriend thinks I am too easy on him..He thinks I dont put my foot down and I should take everything away and put him in his room with nothing.. How to I let my boyfriend know that I do try with my difficult child. and yelling and taking everything away does not work.... What would you do...
I just don't know any more. I have a 10yo with " adjustment disorder with mixed emotions and conduct disfunction" I think there is more but thats all they are saying he has at the moment. OK We moved in with my boyfriend in sept 08. My difficult child has always been angry for as long as I can remember. There is nothing really that sets him off. We just live minute to minute in our house. My boyfriend has a 10yo with asperg. Who he only sees fri and sat. My difficult child lives in the home mon-fri. My difficult child gets upset often and has these fits and yells and is just mean. Well he was going to his dads for the weekend and he wanted to bring some playstation games. He knows the ones he is not allowed to play. Well my boyfriend saw some of the games he was bringing and called me at work to see if it was ok. I explained no he could not bring them, and told him what ones from the list he could bring. Well my difficult child had a melt down and I came home to a mad boyfriend. Well my boyfriend and his son went to play a game that my difficult child is not allowed to play (Grand theif Auto) and guess what it was out of the case. So I called my husband and asked him to look in the games and tell me what ones were in there. Sure enough my difficult child took that one and stuck it in there with another game. I asked my difficult child why he had done it.. He started yelling at me and would not say he had.. Told me every reason other than the truth. So I told him he had no games or comp for a week.. He is so angry, and hung up on me. I know when I get home today it is going to be a fight. My boyfriend thinks I am too easy on him..He thinks I dont put my foot down and I should take everything away and put him in his room with nothing.. How to I let my boyfriend know that I do try with my difficult child. and yelling and taking everything away does not work.... What would you do...