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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 618202" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>She gets WIC and Connor has Medicaid. That is it for government assistance...no food stamps or welfare.</p><p> </p><p>We did see Connor's great aunt yesterday. It tugged at both (M and I) of our heartstrings. She is just such an awesome lady and she grabbed Connor and loved on him. She would be BEYOND thrilled to find out she was <em>related</em> to him. We both wanted to tell her so badly but husband said no. When M asked why, he said it was not his place to tell her - that it is the jerk's place to tell her. I don't necessarily agree with that, but, the jerk did not want his aunt to know they were dating before so maybe that is where that stems from. I did tell M that if the great aunt were to find out, that husband and I would have to play like we had NO idea they were related. But, it is bound to come out sooner or later. M is friends on Facebook with the jerk's brother and mother (brother is a great, normal guy married to a great normal woman. Actually, everyone I know in that family is great, except for the jerk.) Great aunt is also friends with M's brother on Facebook - it is bound to come out. I told husband that last night and he shrugged and just said it was not <em>his</em> place to say anything.</p><p> </p><p>On another note, M had a drug evaluation today. The lady that ordered the original one agreed that she is SO different now than she was then, that a new one really was needed. It came back as a recommendation for Stage 1 outpatient treatment and that is <em>only</em> due to her past. Her PO explained that they are going by hours so she needs to complete 41 hours of outpatient. Since the classes she is going to are 3.5 hours a week, she should be able to complete that in 12 weeks instead of the 24 she originally thought.</p><p> </p><p>Honest to God, I really don't think she needs anything. It has been almost five months of living with her again - she is a <em>normal</em> person now. Completely. I know it is hard for others to believe - they have probably heard it a million times, but it really is true. It seems kind of ridiculous to attend these at this point, but it will show the judge she did what he wanted and then hopefully we can put this all behind us.</p><p> </p><p>Jerk called M again the other night - at almost midnight. Do they normally let prisoners out at that hour to make phone calls or could he have a stashed phone with him in prison? If that is the case, I think I may need to make a phone call to that prison and notify them that he is making calls...may ruin any chance for early parole?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 618202, member: 15796"] She gets WIC and Connor has Medicaid. That is it for government assistance...no food stamps or welfare. We did see Connor's great aunt yesterday. It tugged at both (M and I) of our heartstrings. She is just such an awesome lady and she grabbed Connor and loved on him. She would be BEYOND thrilled to find out she was [I]related[/I] to him. We both wanted to tell her so badly but husband said no. When M asked why, he said it was not his place to tell her - that it is the jerk's place to tell her. I don't necessarily agree with that, but, the jerk did not want his aunt to know they were dating before so maybe that is where that stems from. I did tell M that if the great aunt were to find out, that husband and I would have to play like we had NO idea they were related. But, it is bound to come out sooner or later. M is friends on Facebook with the jerk's brother and mother (brother is a great, normal guy married to a great normal woman. Actually, everyone I know in that family is great, except for the jerk.) Great aunt is also friends with M's brother on Facebook - it is bound to come out. I told husband that last night and he shrugged and just said it was not [I]his[/I] place to say anything. On another note, M had a drug evaluation today. The lady that ordered the original one agreed that she is SO different now than she was then, that a new one really was needed. It came back as a recommendation for Stage 1 outpatient treatment and that is [I]only[/I] due to her past. Her PO explained that they are going by hours so she needs to complete 41 hours of outpatient. Since the classes she is going to are 3.5 hours a week, she should be able to complete that in 12 weeks instead of the 24 she originally thought. Honest to God, I really don't think she needs anything. It has been almost five months of living with her again - she is a [I]normal[/I] person now. Completely. I know it is hard for others to believe - they have probably heard it a million times, but it really is true. It seems kind of ridiculous to attend these at this point, but it will show the judge she did what he wanted and then hopefully we can put this all behind us. Jerk called M again the other night - at almost midnight. Do they normally let prisoners out at that hour to make phone calls or could he have a stashed phone with him in prison? If that is the case, I think I may need to make a phone call to that prison and notify them that he is making calls...may ruin any chance for early parole? [/QUOTE]
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