So, ex-difficult child has still been, well, just awesome. She is just not a difficult child at all anymore. She is kicking butt at her job and they are really noticing her and giving her more hours. Seh never calls in, she is always early adn never refuses an extra hour when offered. She is not dating anyone, nor does she have any desire to. She is such a loving and devoted mother to Connor. She just makes me SO proud. We are all in the living room last night playing peek a boo with Connor and he is just laughing up a storm. Then Marina gets a phone call and goes upstairs to take it. She is up there for a little while and then comes downstairs crying. It was the sperm donor. He must have used a calling card to call her. (First time in 4 1/2 months mind you). I don't know what was said and quite frankly, I don't care. I hate this "man" with every fiber of my being. I keep finding out more lovely things about this POS like how when she went to jail, he had given her a concussion from beating her. So you can imagine the things that I wish I could do to him. I am so angry. I want to yell, scream, shake her and ask her how in the world she could possibly shed one tear over this pile of poo. I couldn't even talk to her about it. I went to bed silently fuming. She posted on FB how she was sad after that phone call. Ick. I don't want him near my daughter and I don't want him around my grandson. I realize he is the sperm donor, but that is ALL he is. In my eyes, you need to EARN the title of daddy or father. I need advice. I really do. How do I handle him having this contact with her? Is it my business? Do I stay out of it? I feel SO strongly against this person. She is positively flourishing with him being gone. I want him to stay gone. How in the world do I behave about this??