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<blockquote data-quote="janebrain" data-source="post: 395639" data-attributes="member: 3208"><p>The others have it right--you really have to realize that you cannot change others and actually, once you do, the burden off your own shoulders is so wonderful! When you stop trying to control what others do, think, feel, etc., there is a tremendous sense of freedom. You aren't responsible for their actions, reactions, and feelings! They need to own those, you need to give up control. Giving up the need to control others is a wonderful feeling!</p><p></p><p>So, once you have a lightbulb moment like Hound did and like I did, you will find you feel calmer, happier, and actually more in control of your own life. </p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="janebrain, post: 395639, member: 3208"] The others have it right--you really have to realize that you cannot change others and actually, once you do, the burden off your own shoulders is so wonderful! When you stop trying to control what others do, think, feel, etc., there is a tremendous sense of freedom. You aren't responsible for their actions, reactions, and feelings! They need to own those, you need to give up control. Giving up the need to control others is a wonderful feeling! So, once you have a lightbulb moment like Hound did and like I did, you will find you feel calmer, happier, and actually more in control of your own life. Hugs, Jane [/QUOTE]
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