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<blockquote data-quote="JulieAnn" data-source="post: 657392" data-attributes="member: 19071"><p>Copabanana, you write so beautifully. That was so poignant and relatable. You should write a book. </p><p></p><p>How do you deal with guilt? Not old 'woulda, shoulda, coulda' guilt, but guilt over being happy in the now. I wake up and feel guilty about sleeping in my own bed while he's probably outside somewhere. Going to the grocery store, he's probably hungry. I know deep down that there's nothing I can do about those things. I'm going to try changing the thought pattern as you suggest. I can't control him but I can control my thoughts.</p><p></p><p>I'm with you, I don't tolerate negative or toxic friendships anymore. There's enough of that without adding to it on purpose.</p><p></p><p>Iwantpeace, I'm with you - printing this out - it is a wonderful tool as you say. Balancing act...exactly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JulieAnn, post: 657392, member: 19071"] Copabanana, you write so beautifully. That was so poignant and relatable. You should write a book. How do you deal with guilt? Not old 'woulda, shoulda, coulda' guilt, but guilt over being happy in the now. I wake up and feel guilty about sleeping in my own bed while he's probably outside somewhere. Going to the grocery store, he's probably hungry. I know deep down that there's nothing I can do about those things. I'm going to try changing the thought pattern as you suggest. I can't control him but I can control my thoughts. I'm with you, I don't tolerate negative or toxic friendships anymore. There's enough of that without adding to it on purpose. Iwantpeace, I'm with you - printing this out - it is a wonderful tool as you say. Balancing act...exactly. [/QUOTE]
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