Geez Cedar, I couldn't have expressed the feelings any better. It's not hokey or mushy at All. It is what it is. It's almost as if all that I'm doing is helping lessen my guilt and grief when I would send him money or pay a bill. So, logically, it's really sort of a selfish response. It's not for him....it's for me. They don't care, they don't see beyond their immediate needs.
Tool box. Great idea. So many great tools available. How silly and ridiculous to think I was alone.
Thank you so much.