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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 613236"><p>SuZir- Great ideas!!! I am deff going to do that.. starting today!!!!! It makes sense and Im glad you agree not to take the outside time off! Im glad this worked for your kids and gives me hope for my son. Outside time for any child is wonderful and healthy. Reading.. he does like to read and have me read to him but he doesn't last very long until he is up and running around or bored. He's in Scouts but just like when he was in Mini Sports, he wanted to do it, but yet at least half the time trying to get him going was a whole other thing! Even when its something he wants to do... its based on his time only. I know medications dont work a lone, for years I asked his pediatrician for a therapist but they said it was all me.. I should take the results of the EEG back to them to show them it wasnt all me!!! Anyway thats over with and now therapy looks like it will happen soon. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> We always do reward him for his good attitude, when hes not angry he is very helpful and smart, fun to me around, we let him know in many forms!</p><p></p><p>Malika- we can do this together and let each other know how its going <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I need to see your post how your son is doing on the medications...</p><p></p><p>MidwestMom- Thanks, I just feel I am here repeating the same over and over.. well, I am actually. I am glad your friend got the help and I see what your saying about the neighbors and intervention. Actually, as I mentioned in the beginning my mom did have Schizophrenia amd I know theres a chance my kids can get it and usually symptoms dont show until late teens to early adults. Luckily is skipped all of us and I feel in my heart he doesnt have it, but as you said, I wont know for sure until he's older. I do know as you all mentioned and my countless hours on the computer, all his symptems have checklisted for ADHD/ODD which doctors said yes to, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), the doctors believe thats part of the ODD to " get" to us. Time will tell they say. Now, I know he needs more testing but I under Conduct Disorder, you can see what I checked off and I say possible Bipolar but I know- Im no Dr and have to wait. </p><p></p><p>CPS here finds you guilty automatically and takes the kids away then investigates <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Ya we have yelled back.. not a great idea and makes it worse but I admit that because I know I have never harmed my kids nor ever will. But my grandpa ( again this morning) says WE made my son this way because of yelling.. Ummmmmm we didnt yell back until after a few years of this!!! But we arent yelling anymore and my son still is strong. I told him it was proven in the EEG that his aggression part is not functioning correctly so for this is to be born that way. He keeps saying theres nothing like that when he was a kids and its all bologna and I told him oh really? Then what was wrong with my mom- she was born that way!! There are Mental/ neurological Illness your born with!!!! Oh of course there are the cases of abuse, but we are not abusing them. Their father is violent, as well as their fathers brother and their father... hereditary too. I told my grandpa they didnt have the technology then and plus people who had issues they locked up in psychiatric Hospitals or threw them in Jail. They didnt know how to handle them. No testing or techniques yikes.</p><p></p><p>Some people and their thoughts just because your son is black and your white.. uggh that gets to me! I know adding that to a screaming child people really get weird. I dont see color, in fact one man I wanted to marry was black and let me tell you, a Man he was!!!! I trusted him with my life as well as my daughter ( son wasnt born yet- wasnt pregnant) I got the comments if we had kids how they would be teased, my daughter would be teased and my family and ex broke us up. </p><p></p><p>InsaneCdn- I know but.. just hoping thats not the intervention I get. But I do need more proffessionals for sure. Oh the day my son called the cops a while back.. I told the Cop my son was going to the DR to get tested because he is ADHD/ODD and he asked what medications he was on.. I replied nothing yet he just said ok. I am going to bring my son to talk to another cop at the station so they see him and know hes fine. We do have a few cop friends but they dont work in our jurisdiction.</p><p></p><p>Best wishes and Happy Thanksgiving to you all.. so far so good here and he has been up since 6:30am!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 613236"] SuZir- Great ideas!!! I am deff going to do that.. starting today!!!!! It makes sense and Im glad you agree not to take the outside time off! Im glad this worked for your kids and gives me hope for my son. Outside time for any child is wonderful and healthy. Reading.. he does like to read and have me read to him but he doesn't last very long until he is up and running around or bored. He's in Scouts but just like when he was in Mini Sports, he wanted to do it, but yet at least half the time trying to get him going was a whole other thing! Even when its something he wants to do... its based on his time only. I know medications dont work a lone, for years I asked his pediatrician for a therapist but they said it was all me.. I should take the results of the EEG back to them to show them it wasnt all me!!! Anyway thats over with and now therapy looks like it will happen soon. :) We always do reward him for his good attitude, when hes not angry he is very helpful and smart, fun to me around, we let him know in many forms! Malika- we can do this together and let each other know how its going :) I need to see your post how your son is doing on the medications... MidwestMom- Thanks, I just feel I am here repeating the same over and over.. well, I am actually. I am glad your friend got the help and I see what your saying about the neighbors and intervention. Actually, as I mentioned in the beginning my mom did have Schizophrenia amd I know theres a chance my kids can get it and usually symptoms dont show until late teens to early adults. Luckily is skipped all of us and I feel in my heart he doesnt have it, but as you said, I wont know for sure until he's older. I do know as you all mentioned and my countless hours on the computer, all his symptems have checklisted for ADHD/ODD which doctors said yes to, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), the doctors believe thats part of the ODD to " get" to us. Time will tell they say. Now, I know he needs more testing but I under Conduct Disorder, you can see what I checked off and I say possible Bipolar but I know- Im no Dr and have to wait. CPS here finds you guilty automatically and takes the kids away then investigates :( Ya we have yelled back.. not a great idea and makes it worse but I admit that because I know I have never harmed my kids nor ever will. But my grandpa ( again this morning) says WE made my son this way because of yelling.. Ummmmmm we didnt yell back until after a few years of this!!! But we arent yelling anymore and my son still is strong. I told him it was proven in the EEG that his aggression part is not functioning correctly so for this is to be born that way. He keeps saying theres nothing like that when he was a kids and its all bologna and I told him oh really? Then what was wrong with my mom- she was born that way!! There are Mental/ neurological Illness your born with!!!! Oh of course there are the cases of abuse, but we are not abusing them. Their father is violent, as well as their fathers brother and their father... hereditary too. I told my grandpa they didnt have the technology then and plus people who had issues they locked up in psychiatric Hospitals or threw them in Jail. They didnt know how to handle them. No testing or techniques yikes. Some people and their thoughts just because your son is black and your white.. uggh that gets to me! I know adding that to a screaming child people really get weird. I dont see color, in fact one man I wanted to marry was black and let me tell you, a Man he was!!!! I trusted him with my life as well as my daughter ( son wasnt born yet- wasnt pregnant) I got the comments if we had kids how they would be teased, my daughter would be teased and my family and ex broke us up. InsaneCdn- I know but.. just hoping thats not the intervention I get. But I do need more proffessionals for sure. Oh the day my son called the cops a while back.. I told the Cop my son was going to the DR to get tested because he is ADHD/ODD and he asked what medications he was on.. I replied nothing yet he just said ok. I am going to bring my son to talk to another cop at the station so they see him and know hes fine. We do have a few cop friends but they dont work in our jurisdiction. Best wishes and Happy Thanksgiving to you all.. so far so good here and he has been up since 6:30am!!!! [/QUOTE]
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